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It's not easy and your friends might be right, but perhaps you are focusing on the wrong thing in their advice. Don't "hit on them". Be present, attentive and confident. If a girl likes you, talk with her more about your shared interests. Try to arrange group activities, where you can be together with other people. Build relation and trust over time. And remember that being confident means being ready to take "no" for an answer without making a big fuss about it. Good luck!