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I think the biggest problem is that dating apps are so impersonal. I know that isn't super helpful but it's nature won't change imo. The advice I would offer is take breaks, especially when You're starting to think like this. Just get off them for like 2-4 weeks and when you're feeling up for it pick them back up. It's gonna take a good bit of time so time off is crucial if you don't wanna burn out.
Apps are impersonal, but several of my friends have told me that getting hit on is uncomfortable for them so real life isn't an option.
Taking a break isn't really a good option either. Opportunities to talk with a decent woman are so exceedingly rare that I can't risk missing one.