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When called out on it, they then doubled down on this dogshit take: https://archive.ph/quYyb

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

explain why I'm getting downvoted,

Oh, don't bother! Sometimes it feels like even asking for people to explain their downvotes invites more downvotes for some inexplicable reason.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, don’t bother! Sometimes it feels like even asking for people to explain their downvotes invites more downvotes for some inexplicable reason.

Without referring to the specific post in question, I have some comments about that.

Different people downvote for all sorts of different reasons. Some downvote if they disagree with a statement, some downvote because they don't like the way the statement is presented (eg. I often downvote posts with huge embedded memes, even if I like what the meme says); some downvote because they don't think the context is appropriate (even if they agree with the ideas said, they might be seen as the wrong time / place); some downvote due to a misunderstanding or perhaps an ambiguity in the post. etc. etc. And very often, posts with more than one idea in them are downvoted by people who agree with part of it but disagree with another part (even if the second part is minor and insignificant).

So then, if someone says something like "I'm being downvoted because xyz", they'll almost certainly be downvoted by a heap of people who had a different reason in mind. If a person says "show me where I'm wrong", that apparently ignores the other possible reasons for downvotes - and can sometimes imply arrogance and stubbornness - which of course will invite downvotes. And if someone just asks "why am I being downvoted?" it might be interpreted to mean "I don't deserve to be downvoted" - which of course will also invite more downvotes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 48 minutes ago)

Thanks for laying it out. Yeah, I've thought about this and I do get it that we're all different. I wrote that out of exasperation from the inconsistency and just plain old pettiness that seems to underline some of those motives that leave people confused.

My criteria is: does this contribute to the conversation in any meaningful way and is it grounded? So to me things like downvoting because of some arbitrary reason that only serves the voter feels selfish and shallow and pointless. It's almost destructive, even, when previous voting scores hold some momentum and impact how the thread is perceived. For example, some folks have been downvoted to hell because someone misinterpreted their comment and replied with a popular opinion totally missing the point, framing the first person a moron but without critically looking into what they're saying beyond first the impression. (Man, I wish I could find that one exemplary thread easily.)

I know, I know, the points are made up and don't matter, but sometimes they mean something to those who receive them.

But anyway, thank you for your synthesis, you sound like a very smart cookie.