Off My Chest
RULES:
I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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So while it's good to spread server load, for a new user it's also good to just land on a reliable server and then I'd suggest move to another server once you're familiar with Lemmy if you find a server you prefer. You'll already find a lot of content has been federated in locally on established servers.
I'd suggest Lemmy.ee, Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, of sh.itjust.works . There are also good regional servers like feddit.uk, and Lemmy.ca and similar non-english servers.
In terms of apps, I use Boost which is pretty much identical to the old Reddit version.
You should be able to log in to any server on most apps, so it may be that the server you've picked is a little flaky or difficult to reach?
Maybe not that one https://feddit.nl/post/16246531