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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you. I'm so very overwhelmed with all of this and I'm also only scratching the surface of how bad it all is; I can't really find the ability to concentrate on all the details anymore. It's just like endless waves of trauma washing over me and I'm so numb I don't even notice. I cannot cry anymore, and I just try to make the best out of my days without getting into anything with him. It's so hard to even review with my therapist because I shut out most of the details. Also I work two jobs, about 11 hours a weekday and 6-8 hours on weekends, and it just makes it hard to accomplish anything or fix anything or feel anything but trying to power through. I hope I can escape too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

I understand, that sounds incredibly harrowing.

I'll leave you with step one which is

  1. find a listing for a room in a safe place thats away from your partner and preferably close to work or within commuting range.

Thats all you need to think about for now, just do that for me and keep your chin up best you can. Night ๐Ÿคซ stay safe

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I'll start looking. Thank you friend. It's been a very hard week.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Better days lay ahead, keep me posted ๐Ÿ˜‡. Remember, just stick to step 1 and update me when you've tackled that. I'll DM u now just to make contact