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By that I mean basically unexpected oases in your life where and by whom you feel nurtured and restored and just safe in the moment?

For me, it was a woman at work who became like a mother to me and I'll think a bit more about physical spaces but that is a very important aspect also

Try not to say your home space cuz that should be a given. Think outside the crib

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The shower. Sometimes I just sit down in the tub and let life roll away in heated bliss

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh man. That with a nice, cold drink. Often a beer or cocktail. The dichotomy is glorious.

Sweet, sweet, naked, hot bliss.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

This guy showers!

Have you tried a “shower orange”? Can’t recommend it enough.