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I realize that this is a very hot political season. Its impossible to keep a "good vibes" feel with this year's election politics, so I'm not asking for "Don't be an Ass" or other such naive statement. But please try to be on your best behavior. This is "BestOfLemmy", and not a political debate site.
I've nuked a couple of subthreads that have gotten too hot. Please report anything you think is unhelpful to the greater discussion. I'll remove distracting posts as I see them, but I don't promise "good moderation" here. I'm just gonna cleanup what I can see and when I see it.
The general rule for "BestOfLemmy" is to be an appropriate place for a Lemmy beginner to get a feel of Lemmy in general. Yall are somewhat forgiven for the heated topic, but its not a complete pass. Try to keep the perspective of "newbies to Lemmy are stopping by here first". And think about how you'd like to present yourself to them.
This is my guiding principle for moderation. This isn't a debate subsite, or debate community. I'm not necessarily interested in having everyone here complete their back-and-forth discussion (especially if it gets heated, swear words, accusatory tones, etc. etc.).
This post being presented as the best of Lemmy with all the downvote brigading for wrongthink is making me want want to leave Lemmy again. I used to run an instance a while back before the first reddit migration and just gave up (when lemmy.ml and lemmygrad was dominating the lemmyverse) and this whole mess of a post have only made it seem like everything is worse.
And that's after I've spent the last two weeks blocking users I find awful instead of spending all that time insulting and downvoting people "that have the wrong opinion".
Maybe the best of Lemmy is downvotes and snarky "don't let the door hit your ass in the way out" comments? I see no point I'm mentioning what seems like the worst of Lemmy these days.
Maybe you should not allow memes and discourses that present genocide as an unavoidable necessity. Your ass might be legally liable.
So to you, the best of Lemmy is "vote for my candidate or you're a traitor"? And ON TOP OF THAT, you want people to accept it or get their comment deleted? What kind of reasoning is that? You could just remove such an obviously inflammatory post instead of acting in such way. Especially since you literally admitted this is not to encourage a conversation or a debate:
I'm sure new users will love to see this kind of behavior by the mods of this community
I'm deleting the worst of posts that have degenerated into just two members insulting each other over and over again.
You can see the topic is mostly open for your discussion. Just don't make your posts devolve into useless bullshit and I'll keep the posts up.
I know it's careful balance and it's basically impossible to get it correct on political topics. But I'll do my best.
I'm simply being honest here. I'm not going to let 5+ posts of insults just stay around here. But this is also a topic with literally hundreds of comments so I'll be making mistakes as a moderator.
I'm not passing out bans here, yet anyway. I'm just deleting posts that have gone off the rails (as well as the threads / earlier posts that led to overheated discussion).
It's my second day on lemmy. I came from Reddit because their moderation is so careless.
I am so tired of moderators using their power to police discussions, rather than keep people safe. Anyone can walk away from an argument at any time; you're not protecting them from that. In fact, what you're doing is silencing them at a time when they're frustrated and have no where else to vent. They come here because they need to get it out.
I'm going to start looking for another platform. People like you are the reason I left Reddit.
Its almost as if the system of unpaid volunteer moderators has its limits.
I'm here on Lemmy because as limited as the system of unpaid volunteer moderators is... its better than the CEO of Reddit who has begun to influence the discussion from the top down. If there is a system of unpaid volunteer moderators, at least they should be supported. And Lemmy seems to be place for that.
Farewell 15 hour old novelty account. We hardly knee ye.
His name was Robert Paulson.
So… if you don’t get to say whatever you want with zero consequences, you threaten to leave?
Enjoy the walk back to Reddit, and tell the bots we said hello!
My friend, Reddit is still a worse option in my opinion.
I mean, I literally came on this post and started calling out the mod. But you see what they did?
I wasn't banned. My comments weren't deleted. Instead they engaged my talking points and tried to offer their opinion instead. I didn't call them an asshole, they didn't call me an idiot. We are just talking and disagreeing.
You are never going to find anything like that over Reddit.
Feel free to browse around the different instances though. You might disagree with the mod of this community and/or instance, but you can always find a different one that better fits your views if you think this is a dealbreaker for you.
Finally, Lemmy is very young compared to Reddit. It doesn't have nearly the same amount of tools available to mods, and yet it's already more transparent with its mod logs being so open and accessible.
Welcome to Lemmy by the way! We are trying our best lol
We're all very sad about whatever you're being offended by when adults are in the room.
You left reddit because of mods... not the other million things spez and co has done? Have fun on the next platform, friend.
That’s what you took from their comment?
That's literally what they wrote. I even quoted them. At least read the whole comment before writing nonsense
Okay. So… I took your advice and I read their whole comment, and I’m now left to ask:
That’s what you took from their comment?
More like, vote against the conservative-fascist coalition if you don't want the US destroyed. If you're skeptical, we can open up any history book and read about how the German conservative-fascist ruling coalition of the 1930s turned out.
I'm not skeptical. I know exactly what I said and your paternalistic tone is not necessary. You're not the only one who heard of the Nazi, you know? We are all very aware.
It's not even about the post itself (even though it's an extremely low effort screenshot). It's about the fact that, a community that is supposed to showcase the best of Lemmy, is:
It's literally just a screenshot of a comment with 4 upvotes that is proudly saying "follow my reasoning and stfu. Otherwise you hate your country". And the mod is in the comments saying "yeah, agree with this and myself or I’ll delete your comment. I might ban you too depending on how I feel. After all, this is not a conversation".
And you can tell this is exactly what is happening because every single user that is pointing out how hypocritical and low effort this is, is getting downvoted to hell and called a fascist. And keep in mind, you don't even know how I'm going to vote in all of this. You and most users here are just attacking other users because they are voicing a different opion than "vote for Harris or you're a traitor"...Now THAT is truly the best of Lemmy: mindlessly downvoting and replying with a snarky joke.
Part of the reason why I nuked entire discussions is because its an effective way to stop the downvoting, dogpiling, and snarkiness. I'm doing what I can here. Its a big topic, I'm not going to be here all day and I'm the only moderator. I'm ultimately going to have to trust all of you to be on better behavior when I leave to do my things today.
Real talk. I'm trying to set up the conditions for this thread to work out even in my limited absences. I cannot promise prompt deletions or even "fairness" in these circumstances. Chances are, I'm going to come back and there's going to be 5 hours of back-and-forth trash, downvoting, yadda yadda. I'm not an idiot, I can see and 100% expect that this will happen. When that happens, I'll have no choice but to delete the whole sub-discussion, starting from the moment it got heated.
And yet, this topic isn't breaking any rule that I've set up ahead of time. And I'm not seeing it as such a massive problem that I need to invent a new rule to specifically nuke this particular topic. I've listed out my reasoning for the two rules of this community already. If you want to argue on the basis of those rules (or alternatively, if you want to propose a 3rd rule to be added), I'm willing to meta-discuss the rules with you here.
But don't take my "delete comment" movements for something else. Lemmy has very few tools for moderation. On other forums, I would have edited yall's posts rather than delete them outright. I'm forced to delete because its against Lemmy's philosophy to allow moderator-edits to posts.
I'm not trying to make you feel bad with the "delete comment". Its just honestly the smallest bit of action I can do on Lemmy. I'm not trying to threaten you, I'm not trying to cause anyone any kind of grief. I get it, its a political topic and you have opinions you want to get out. So talk, get them out. I'll do what I can to keep the best of the discussions up but I'll also be deleting the dogpiles as they come up.
Moderating is a pain in the ass. We appreciate ya
"Vote for my candidate or you're a traitor" is not an opinion anymore. You're an American traitor if you vote for somebody who's killing the rule of law from within. The destruction of America that Putin wants will not be militarily.
You're not a traitor. You are just proving the point I made below in my comments about not knowing anything about the user and mindlessly accusing them. You're also just talking about unrelated stuff since nobody has mentioned Putin, so miss me with your scare tactics and focus on what we're talking about instead of going off your own tangent. Do better
This is what you want new people to see? "vote for my candidate or you hate America"? Propaganda bullshit? I'm sure I'll write in a candidates name as I do every four years as, once again, neither major party is worthy of my vote, but the arrogance of people like you makes me want to vote for Trump out of spite.
Voting for fascism out of spite lmao
That’s exactly what they do. One in ten Bernie Bros voted for Trump in 2016.
That should tell you all you need to know.
I don't think that's necessarily true either lol
Think again.
https://www.npr.org/2017/08/24/545812242/1-in-10-sanders-primary-voters-ended-up-supporting-trump-survey-finds
News flash bud:
You don’t get to just show your ass and then expect people to kiss it. That’s not how it works. You’re not entitled to anyone’s respect when you refuse to offer it yourself. We all saw you all whine and cry in 2016 and again in 2020. You’re no different now.
So no, you don’t get the respect you demand just because you can stomp your feel loud enough.
Theres a reason no one takes any of you seriously,
You taught them not to.
Are you drunk? What the hell are you talking about? Showing your ass? Respect being demanded? Kissing my ass? Who was whining? Who is "any of you"?
:/