Off My Chest
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1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
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OP, you need to get help with your mental health.
You keep making these posts showing clear signs of paranoia and delusions.
Like, how are either you able to looks up your "the only name on record" claims in the first place, just search social media profiles? Is that how you found this guy?
Now you're stalking some online person because of a fluke coincidence?
Like, just a few days ago you had a post saying all these other people were stealing his identity, now it's online strangers?
Asking if you should reporting him missing after years?
It's just at the point people just need to tell you bluntly:
Seek mental health help before things get so bad you instinctively reject anything that goes against delusions.
I know it sucks to hear, and you're going to think it's part of a conspiracy, but you need to get professional help.
I didn’t ask for your abusive labeling. Perhaps one day your spouse will have the same experience I am having, and instead of looking for you, people will just insinuate that your spouse is crazy. You could get lost right now, and I wouldn’t even label him or her, regardless of whether or not they searched for you. In fact, you could get lost right now, and I wouldn’t care at all.
It's the only advice you need, and I started it as plainly as possible because this is the exact response a delusional person would make to the suggestion that they're delusional.
Often because it's not the first time it's been suggested.
You make these posts without all the context hoping people reinforce your beliefs if they hear it in small doses.
Lemmy is too small for that, people recognize usernames.