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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Tja, was soll man da noch sagen. Ein Trauerspiel.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

6000 wir kommen!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Pathetic.

Hatte erst mit erbärmlich übersetzt, aber das war mir zu korrekt.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I never get, how people can make it so complicated. If you are not 100% the other person has given their consent...act as if you do not have it. Keep communicating until you are sure. You can not talk? Then write. Or communicate with gestures. If you have no clear "yes", it's a "no". And a "yes" can also mean: Give the other person space to leave if they wish and allow them to make the first move. There are so many ways to give consent. Also saying "yes" is not necessarily consent. If someone is pressured and the consequence of saying "no" is violence, then even a "yes" is still not consent. There is no way to define it. So as @[email protected] said, if there is no 100% clear "yes, there is no consent.

For example, some people freeze up. They are assaulted and freeze. Many know the fight or flight response. But freeze is also very common. So they might not struggle, they might not fight back. So force might not even be needed from the attacker. The other person never said "no", right? But that does not mean there is consent. And now the law is updated and the fact that there was no consent is enough that the law can consider it rape. That's it.

Basically nothing changes for the average person.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

This bill removes the requirement that rape must involve physical force, threat or coercion. It also makes the Netherlands the seventeenth country out of 31 European states analysed by Amnesty International to recognize that sex without consent is rape.” 

It works in 16 other countries, so I don't think it's going to be a problem now.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I feel like everyone who saw it, recommends it. I've just watched the first episode. Really looking forward to it :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This reminds me that I really have to watch The owl house.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sobald ich "die Grünen" lese, hört ich genau das. Es wohnt einfach mietfrei in meinem Kopf.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Die Auswahl ist da schon sehr groß. Gefühlt hat auch jede Ventilatorengemeinschaft eine eigene Version davon.

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