thank you for your response!
I think i worded the break thing a little weirdly. I kept complaining about it and asked if he needed a break. He said no because according to him he does not need any space. After a while of more arguing about the same thing, he agreed to it. When i asked how long it would take for him to feel better he said that it could take a year. I said that i can‘t wait a year and if he needs space for a year, id rather break up. He then said no and we decided not to do it.
:-(