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You got this! Best wishes to you and your family.

Is it possible that she's rebelling because she - in her mind - got ripped away from friends? Maybe she's also overwhelmed?

I would say you definitely have the trigger point in mind then. Who knows what else is going on in the new school that you as a parent don't get to know easily?

I can only think how I'd go over it with my daughter, so this might not work for you. I would leave the matter of the meds to the side for any discussion for a little bit. Figure out the rest of her circumstances first, then reintroduce the meds once she feels understood again. This can also be very soon. Just don't make the talks about the meds for now. Again, I don't have experience with PDA but if you push too much too often it can be counterproductive even before factoring that in.

You will most likely have to get a new prescription for the strattera as well, as going from zero back to full will be problematic. It needs ramping up time with the dosage. Otherwise there will be side effects that might lead to setbacks. That's personal experience.

I can't really say anything about the autism, I myself am on strattera for ADHD.

For those meds I can say they have the side effect of making me drowsy/buzzy sometimes. A few hours after taking them. Maybe she has something like that and doesn't associate it enough to talk about it, but somewhere still feels like she needs to refuse meds because something is going on?

From a parental view, my daughter had it recently that she suddenly changed her behaviour because of random words from peers in kindergarten. Managed to explain it to her on my end, but it was still tough with a non-autistic but strong headed girl. I don't know your daughter's circumstances, etc, but such a sudden change can also come from external sources you aren't privy to. Maybe she opened up to a kid that then had a strong anti-med stance from its own upbringing? Maybe she was told somewhere that her parents are trying to make her be someone she isn't - even if it's not true. Maybe she's doing it to fit in with that kid/group? Just possibilities.

I'm not saying it has to be something like that, it could also be something completely random. It's just another two items on the list of things to possibly ask about.

And pretty surely zero extra going to the farmers

There's a "hub" mode where your endpoint inside the network grants access to the whole network like a standard VPN server.

Can just say: nope. No difference for me.

I thought of him first thing when I heard the news, but posting that, at least on Reddit, always gets a hoard of haters going.

Leftist organizations with authoritarian approaches exist, but generally have a way lower impact on the life of the average progressive. They're usually, with very few exceptions, smaller groupings.

With conservatives there's always an in-group. other groups get judged by whether they follow the same life rules, even if they're things the other group can't change.

They "tolerate" other groups - as long as those other groups do not show up in their life. Begrudgingly a part of them has accepted more diversity, but they'd rather have diversity gone once the opportunity arises.

Any issue that might be big for them is a non-issue until it affects their group. So you better not change anything and do as they do, no matter how impossible it actually is in reality.

There's no willingness for compromise and changing their ways. It's their way out the highway unless you force them.

Conservatives always subscribe to a higher moral authority that they say is the way to be. Their individualism just comes down to "I can manage with the rules prescribed, so you have to be able to do the same. I don't rely on others. You shouldn't either."

That's not individualism. That's just Stockholm syndrome. They're clinging onto a weird 'life sucks, live with it' "rugged individualism", which is literally just suffering through life. Because that's all they've been taught, because they weren't ever allowed to be the nail that sticks out. They had the hammer applied on them when they did and now they do the same to others.

Progressives celebrate sticking out, they want to allow everyone to be their true, authentic self. They get to do something conservatives weren't allowed to. That makes them angry. And progressives want to change things in innumerable ways - the motivation for it doesn't matter, can be all good, like preventing more climate catastrophes. each conservative group will have at least something a progressive group is "threatening" to change: trades learned, ownership structures, technology, etc. their spokespeople will rail against these for their various interests (bigotry, narcissism, profits ...) And that unites them against the thousands of splinter groups all labelled progressives.

That boundary thing is gonna happen again and again, at least it has with my daughter. Can be very rough. Seems to come in batches as well, so yeah.... I can only advise you to try and figure out the best ways to keep cool when it happens. Always keep in mind that it's natural to try and push boundaries, and try not to punish it while still staying firm.

Things will get easier, and it might help to write down mini diaries that you can later look back on to put things in perspective. Because it sure won't always feel like it did.

I've been (more or less successfully) trying to keep a log of happenings every few hours on the phone. Important: try to record small achievements. Focus on the positives. it helps me put things in perspective a) close to when it happens and b) whenever I read back on it. Also reminds me that despite everything, I still manage to keep bread on the table and raise a great kid.

Example entries:

1. Tantrum happened, reason: X, calmed down quickly and stayed firm. Remembered to praise for calming down well.
2. Took out trash
3. Successful client call
4. Cleaned kitchen

Conservatives aren't actually hyper-individualists. That's a wrong assumption. They're individualists within confines. They have their set communities that are guided by an authority (church, for example) and they want everyone else to conform to their way of living.

Any conservative structure has an authoritarian leadership whose call to action will be heeded. The biggest disobedience you find will be people just not saying anything against it.

Unlike this, progressives deal with a lot of infighting because there's a thousand ways to achieve things and any leadership is constantly scrutinized and criticised.

There's an inherent speed and organisation advantage to single-point leadership (authoritarianism) Vs the more measured compromise system (democracy).

And then there's the part where conservatives are the overwhelming majority of rich people, who can dump in the money to organise things. You have to be a garbage human to become filthy rich, and those garbage humans will of course happily work on campaigns to hold progressives back. Progress is the enemy of scum, the past is their friend.

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