TransComrade69

joined 4 years ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'd say my post-administrator mental breakdown/posting about the turning number of a circle while hysterically manic is pretty deep on the iceberg.

Mood stabilizers got me down bad now though. 🥵

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I'm a simple gal, I see a gun, I upvote.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

you're so pure and I'm glad we're friends

 

Ya know, if you can afford to use the stimulus for that and feel comfortable enough around fire arms. Yada yada, you know the drill.

 
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 children)

I feel like this has to be real because weed number big funny. It's just screams leftist humor.

Edit: I know it's bullshit, but I REALLY want to believe it's real because weed number do be big funny.

 
 

2/4/2021 Update: In light of chucklefuck TERF shit with Giggle, I am once again demanding the rest of you liberals educate yourselves on trans issues with Trans Liberation as a starting point. And you better believe more literature on minority struggle is in the pipelines. We're doing some reading this month, libs. Get ready.


AUDIOBOOKS HAVE BEEN RECORDED FOR ALL 8 CHAPTERS. YOU LITERALLY HAVE NO EXCUSE FOR LIBERALISM.

https://hexbear.net/post/48476

Follow that link and you'll find a free download of the book in pdf and comrade @EugeneDebs's epub, comrade @futomes' audiobooks for all eight chapters, and notes and discussions from the book (and don't you dare just read the fucking notes you god damn liberals, read the fucking book or listen to the audiobook).

I spent an entire weekend night scanning the whole damn book so y'all could educate yourselves on the fucking struggles we've been screaming about for the past six months and hardly any of you damn cissie libs participated. Had you participated you'd probably have a better understanding of the struggles we face and we probably wouldn't be in this situation where trans people are heading for this damn hills because you're all shit libs driving us away.

Fucking read it or listen to the audiobooks and I won't ask again. It's all free. The book is only 147 pages - that's 7 pages per night for exactly 3 weeks. I wipe my fucking ass with 7 pages, that's nothing. People put genuine effort into this to ensure you could educate yourselves and you have no reason not to outside of fucking liberalism.

It reads quick. Drop whatever the fuck you're reading and read this. Now. :leslie-shining:

~~Edit: I'll be throwing up a discussion thread at some point in the next week or so for you damn shitlibs to comment on with things you find meaningful so I'll know if you actually gave a shit. I swear to God I better see y'all in the comments.~~

If you're having trouble downloading, there are links in this comment by u/hexaflexagonbear that seem to work.

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submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

TL;DR I'm resigning as an admin of Chapo effective Sunday, January 24th, 2021.

So what's up, TCFunnySexNumber? Why are you resigning?

Well, let me break it down for you.

I'll start by saying the amount of messages I've received since The Great Pronoun Wars saying they would have left if there wasn't trans representation on the admin team has been not insignificant. It's a huge pressure and that shouldn't be what it takes to keep someone there. I'm tired of feeling like the Guerrilla GlueTM that's barely keeping this screaming metal death trap barreling down the highway. I'm not trying to jerk off my own efforts on site, but it's not hard to see.

But more than anything I'm tired of feeling like a pawn who exists to look pretty and give the illusion that we're a trans positive space.

We tell people to set pronoun tags to have a shred of solidarity with trans comrades.
Cissies throw a fit.

We tell the community we will be analyzing downvotes to see who is creating a hostile environment for trans people here.
Cissies throw a fit.

We remove the downvote button to stop people from using it as a means of shitting on trans people without actually saying anything.
Cissies throw a fit.

We ask people to put content warnings on posts with transphobia so not all of us have to see it or engage with it.
Cissies throw a fit.

Trans comrades leave the site and drop messages about how cissies have zero solidarity with us and don't actually give a fuck to learn about our issues or support us.
Cissies throw a fit.

We start banning people for being hostile when we bring up that the community is actively hostile towards us.
Cissies throw a fit.

We try to do literally anything to combat the reactionary environment.
Cissies throw a fucking fit.

I'd be hard pressed to look at all of that and say it's a trans positive space. Furthermore, I feel like it's fine that I exist as an admin so long as I don't stand up to any dudebro armchair leftists who vocally don't give a shit about us and genuinely want us to leave so they can have a pretty vaporwave Reddit 4chan hybrid without guilt or being told their "efforts" as "leftists" aren't good enough.

It's not difficult to see how the community has grown increasingly hostile toward us over the last few months. And for months the thought of snapping, going rogue mod, and banning everyone who has alienated us has crossed my mind infinitely more times than I'm willing to admit. I've seen calls for change get reduced to minor policy that eventually fizzles out and amounts to nothing and I'm tired of watching it happen and I'm drained by the amount of pushback and outright denial from the userbase that there is anything wrong in the first place.

Sure, the announcements of policy change could've been handled better, I'm willing to admit that. But to outright deny there are issues in the community and to make calls for admin elections in response to us saying we're banning people for perpetuating the hostile environment that's causing the site to hemorrhage trans people is fucking bullshit.

I'm tired of this community being like every other fucking lib space on the internet where it's just cis people meaninglessly shouting "trans rights!" into the void without any realistic understanding of what that means and without actively listening to us on how to be better allies.

I'm tired of us being talked over. The amount of times I've seen my argument of "go to !TEL and look at the first few pages and see the downvotes" repeated by cis users and be taken more seriously than others have taken that argument from me is fucking disgusting and I'm sick of it.

After Cass left and Confabulously posted about how she's thinking of leaving too, I just let the hatred that's been building up inside of me for months completely wash over me and started banning dissenters without much thought. My only regret is that I didn't ban more cissies during my purge spree.

I've dumped hundreds of hours of my life into this project. I'm grateful I did otherwise I wouldn't have met so many great people let alone all the trans cuties, but it's horrible that the aftermath of the most recent struggle session literally had me thinking about walking away from everything and starting my own record and coffee shop combo and living out the rest of my days as an NPC.

Over the next two weeks I'll be handing the other admins the keys to what I had done with the accounting software and files I'd been doing for us pro-bono but never really got around to finishing as a result of various scheduling conflicts, any accounts and passwords I made for various side projects here, and whatever else they need before I fuck off. I wish them all the best of luck. Maybe one day things will be different and I can return but I just can't see a clear path forward for myself here - and I definitely understand that this is a breakup cliche.

I left trans spaces because I fucking hated their politics and felt like I didn't fit in but now I realize I should've been trying to radicalize those trans spaces this entire time instead.

 

I'd like to see if people are interested before bringing the idea to a recruiter. Lemme know, fam.

I'm thinking it'd probably be best on a Saturday.

I swear I'll flip if only 3 people ask questions and it's crickets for the rest of the time. lol

 

Leslie time, y'all. Surprisingly, this is my first Leslie post of the week. Consider yourselves lucky.

Up for discussion this week is anything from chapters 7 through 8. These discussion points kinda majorly fucking suck still.

  • What are your feelings about the book overall?
  • How did you react to Leslie spitting mad anti-capitalist facts in chapter 8? :CommiePOGGERS:
  • Are you still on your "lesser-of-two-evils" bullshit? 👀
  • What did you learn?
  • Was anything eye opening to you?
  • Are there any misconceptions about particular aspects of the trans community that have maybe been torn down?
  • Did anything make you reflect on how you view your own gender identity or expression?
  • Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  • Are there things that brought out intense emotion?
  • Was there anything that really reaffirmed your beliefs as a leftist or motivated you to be more based like Leslie? - Please, God. Remove me from this nightmare.

This thread will be featured for 24 hours then will remain pinned in !transenby_liberation for the remainder of the week. I'm thinking about keeping a general discussion thread pinned in the comm for anyone listening to the audio books to chime in and drop comments.

original thread
week #1 thread
week #2 thread
pdf download
epub download - Huge shout out to comrade @EugeneDebs for putting this together. I realized I didn't credit them in either post but here it is. I appreciate your efforts. ❤️
chapter 1 audiobook - Huge shout out to comrade @futomes for recording these. No words can truly express my appreciation for this. Thank you so much. ❤️
chapter 2 audiobook
chapter 3 audiobook
chapter 4 audiobook
chapter 5 audiobook
chapter 6 audiobook
chapter 7 audiobook
chapter 8 audiobook

 

We are committed to providing a friendly, safe and welcoming environment for all, regardless of gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, personal appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, age, religion, nationality, or other similar characteristic.

We will exclude you from interaction if you insult, demean or harass anyone. That is not welcome behavior. In particular, we don’t tolerate behavior that excludes people in socially marginalized groups.

This 'struggle session' has cut open a sore of cisnormativity which allows plausible deniability of transphobic action and thought. It's senseless and insensitive to push back against what should be a non-issue. Cis and trans alike, set your pronouns so as to normalize an aspect of trans inclusion that goes some way to dispel cishet patriarchal norms assumed default by almost every space, especially online.

There is no excuse (that hasn't been considered and discussed and where applicable, taken on board) to push back against this as we as a community have. We can (and should) do better.

 

Apologies for the delay but here they are. As per usual, if your pronouns aren't in the list, please comment them here and I'll see that they get added.

UPDATE: “Undecided” and “None/Use Name” have now been added.

 

NOTE: In past groups I've been involved with we'd send our volunteer hours and donation receipts to the person organizing these efforts. This is something I would absolutely love to keep track of and update weekly in the sidebar of the mutual aid and donating comm for us all to see a quantified amount of objective good we are doing for our communities and others. So please send me censored receipts redacting all personal information and hours volunteered! <3


Alright, libs, here we go again with some organizations providing relief for the victims of Hurricane Laura in the Louisiana and Texas area that you can donate to and volunteer with, along with tips on digging into financial statements of non-profits to ensure your money will actually be used to help others and not going solely to the pockets of greedy executives. As laid out in the mutual aid and donating comm mod call post, for all non-profits I slap my stamp of approval on and regurgitate to you all here, I am including links to their financial records for you all to look at and make your own decisions as to whether or not to donate. As someone with a background in accounting and finance (Yeah yeah, flame me in the comments for this if you want. Post hog, liberals.), here are some basic, high-level things I look for in the "Financial Audit" and "Form 990" reports before giving my own sign off:

Financial Statements Review

  1. Ensure that executive salaries are not egregious. I know we all hate CEOs including myself, I get it, but they exist and I'm not here to debate their morality in this post. I'm here to make sure your donations aren't going towards overly egregious executive compensation that essentially takes food out of the mouths of the hungry and wastes your hard earned dollars. In the case of the Houston Food Bank, $1.7M in executive salaries for a large scale organization that racked up $167M in food distribution related expenditures last year alone is very reasonable compared to other non-profits that I've seen, in my professional opinion. You can see in their Form 990 that the CEO only receives a salary of approximately $400K, which is slightly high but admittedly much lower than I was anticipating. This information can be found in Part VII of the Form 990.
  2. Ensure the majority of expenditures went towards food distribution and expenses related to that. Keep in mind that food banks are essentially distribution centers and have their own set of logistical, advertising, and community engagement expenditures in procuring goods to distribute from the food bank to local soup kitchens, homeless shelters, and food pantries in surrounding communities. This information can generally be found on the income statements of Financial Audit reports.
  3. Ensure there is a reasonable ratio of revenue from contributions to expenditures in food distribution. Pretty straight forward. Can be found on both the Form 990 and the Financial Audit reports.
  4. Ensure that local organizations are actually being provided assistance by sifting through the Schedule 1 on the Form 990. Just look at all the local organizations receiving assistance, the longer the list the better. Not all reports will have this section but you can generally find the types of organizations that local food banks provide assistance to on their websites. You'll see plenty of elementary schools, programs aimed at giving kids lunches for over the weekend when they aren't in school, elderly programs, local food pantries, etc. Even more straight forward than point 3.

As always, please consider donating directly to Feeding America. For every dollar donated they are able to secure approximately 10 meals by working directly with major manufacturers, retailers, and farmers. I've looked into their financials and they spend hella... bread... on food procurement (Fuck you, that pun was sick). Feeding America and its partners are already on the ground working with local food banks in Louisiana and Texas along with other organizations such as the American Red Cross and the FEMA National Response Coordination Center to provide people with the resources they need. I realize I'm coming across as a shill for Feeding America, but I do have food drive experience with them so I'll shill all I want. I dare you to flame me in the comments. Post hog.

TexasHouston Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Donate Food
Volunteer
Financials


Southeast Texas Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Host a Food Drive
Volunteer
Financials


Food Bank of the Rio Grande Valley, Inc. (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Donate Food
Volunteer
Financials


Coastal Bend Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Volunteer
Financials


Food Bank of the Golden Crescent (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Volunteer
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San Antonio Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Volunteer
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East Texas Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
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LouisianaCommunity Foundation of Southwest Louisiana Hurricane Relief Fund - Previous post here
Donate Funds
Financials


Second Harvest Food Bank of Greater New Orleans and Acadiana (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Volunteer
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Food Bank of Northeast Louisiana (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Donate Food
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Food Bank of Northwest Louisiana (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
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Greater Baton Rouge Food Bank (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Donate Food
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The Food Bank of Central Louisiana (Member of Feeding America)
Donate Funds
Donate Food
Volunteer
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General
American Red Cross - I shouldn't have to provide links or anything for this one. There is probably a center in your town or a town nearby. Contact your local Red Cross to determine if they are taking appointments for blood donations as a result of COVID and to get information on involvement with volunteering with local blood drives. I may be militantly atheist but stepping foot in my local Methodist church that hosts blood drives and helping call people on the recurring blood donation list, checking people in, and giving them snacks afterwards didn't set me ablaze. Donating blood warms the soul, libs.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 years ago* (last edited 4 years ago)

Good thing we aren't fucking libs. Donate if y'all can. No pressure though if it's not within your means to donate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 years ago (1 children)

It's so nice, I love it.

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