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What do you think of her (gf) boobs? [oc] in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

She’s got a nice pair! Bet they look fantastic swinging as she’s getting fucked 😙

My small boobs on a publix beach in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Shiiiit publix be owning BEACHES now???? I’m at the groceries every week and a half daaaaaaamn

Seems like lots of humans have the same dating strategy in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

“U up?”

I came out to myself during the pandemic and I still feel all messed up about it. Any advice or lived experience is appreciated ❤️ in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Ya it’s more ick to be honest. Feeling weak is when I challenge my mind as to why I feel that way. Those are the thoughts/words/feelings that come to mind but they’re all just from childhood bullying and shit both my parents used to say (they said things like “thank god none of my kids turned out gay, I raised them well”. That sort of terrible shit.

I like being dominant with women sexually and submissive with men and I guess the submissive part is where I start to feel ick about myself. My wife’s fully supportive and says she wants me to do whatever makes me happy and she likes that I’m getting off and she gets to have mfm and mmf threesomes which is a big fantasy of hers. Even with her telling me it’s all okay, the ick is coming from inside the house haha.

I gotta dive deeper and really kill the personal double standards cause I don’t have any of these feelings about other gay/bi/pan dudes.

I came out to myself during the pandemic and I still feel all messed up about it. Any advice or lived experience is appreciated ❤️ in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Ya spot on with that one. Identifying things is easy, actually mitigating them and learning to accept myself - work in progress 🤪 thanks for the link I’ll check it out and make sure you get some rest!

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I came out to myself during the pandemic and I still feel all messed up about it. Any advice or lived experience is appreciated ❤️ (lemmynsfw.com)

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5 comments fedilink

Hello nice people,

Im in my early 30s and only came out to myself and wife a couple years ago during lockdown.

Fast forward to now, a few years later. I’ve only been with 2 other dudes and basically only once. I’m talking with a guy and we seem to mesh pretty well but I’m feeling sick to my stomach with anxiety over the prospect of meeting him in person. I’m way in my head about it. I definitely want to meet and enjoy what I enjoy but I’ve got a huge mental block which makes me feel like I’m doing something bad and immoral. Even with full permission from my wife and I’ve done this before and thoroughly enjoyed this. My stomach aches and it’s like I hold myself to crazy standards that I myself would look down on someone else if they had those standards too. It’s like I’m homophobic to myself and myself only. I don’t see other gay or bisexual dudes as weak or less than but if I indulge in anything homosexual, it feels like I’m weak and less than.

If anyone has experienced this or knows someone who feels this or if ya have some wisdom or even just a related story, I’m all ears. I know a therapist is arguably the best person to deal with this but I’m curious what the community thinks.

First post here [OC] in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I remember you from Reddit! You had a username that was totally hard for me to pronounce. Kurwa!

Defederated with burgitt.moe and exploding-heads in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I know we’re all here to rub our peens but I’m curious about something:

So in this scenario, communism is achieved through authoritarian means. Now it’s time to revisit the authoritarian part. How do you get the auths out peacefully? From my experience with auths they don’t willingly give up power. What do?

Not trying to poke any holes in anyone’s ideology or beliefs. Am just curious :)

Now that's what I call competition :) in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

The secret to growing an online platform is getting good porn on it.

Then, they will cum.