Oh boy, I have a lot that I tend to use, it depends on the playthrough but I do have a small stock of player homes I keep for any playthrough occasion!
This part of the list is some of my more favorite player house mods that I've used often.
Leaf Rest SSE by Aukmat/mnikjom Side note about this one, to get the key you may need to TCL into the mailbox.
Cynn's Honeyside Redone by Cynndal
Cynn's Vlindrel Hall by Cynndal
Assassin's Sanctuary by K13RAN64 It's not subtle, but sometimes you just need an edgy manor house.
~Honorable Mentions~
These are my less-used player homes I have but ones I still adore regardless.
Crypt of the Old Guard by ToggleAI
Unique Vampire Dens by Gonkish
The Northern Star Retreat Revised by ArchimageKhan
I have a couple more but this is already a pretty long list, I was also going to add Tel Jerdein but saw you already had it mentioned as well. :)
Thanks for giving her a go! I'm very passionate about Skyrim modding so I'm happy I get to lend my voice to something like this, as well as help on the writing side when needed. :)