Sorry to hear it didn't meet your expectations, but at the very least you can make an informed decision next time around if it comes down to it. At least you got a nice walk out of it!
Fuzzyapathy
joined 11 months ago
Bummer, but these things happen. Hope you still ended up having a good day at least!
Yeah that's pretty steep if you're not super into it. You'd probably have more fun than you think though so just don't let anxiety ruin what could be a pretty fun time!
That's fair, but you can do those any other time 🙂 Just pointing out that you don't need to do anything you're uncomfortable with or even talk to anyone if you don't want to to have fun doing something. Sometimes just exploring and being in a new environment is rewarding enough.
You can go and just enjoy the day by yourself and in your own way. No talking to stranger required unless you want to! Sometimes just a change of scenery can be just what you need.
I don't "consume this kind of content," but I'd be lying if I said I'd never looked sometimes so I do get it on some level. The real answer is mostly that the videos you're seeing are click bait marketing and probably intended(for lack of a better word) for a younger audience.
However, sexual feelings aren't exclusively related to physical attraction. Porn is very much an impersonal and mechanical medium for sexual feelings. Someone who you have familiarity with being a really cool person can elicit so much better of an experience than a random porn video in a lot of occasions. It goes back to the para social relationship linked in another comment and there's a reason Onlyfans and things like it are so popular.
Mobile for me on jerboa. I've got too many wandering eyes nearby to use desktop usually.
If I'm on my general purpose account I stick to all - hot or new or maybe active if I haven't been on in a while and something interesting has happened. I keep a bunch of instance specific accounts, like this one, that I usually stick to local-new with though.
I do at least. I joined the site after most posting had drastically slowed down - a little before Wander mostly disappeared. When there's only a half dozen names, you tend to notice.