So, I've been on an interesting journey lately to try and find a NSFW fediverse instance that fits my preferences. Found some unique ones that might work, but still not 100% sure they are "the one".
It's no secret that I'm furry trash, so, it seems like we're off to a good start here at a place called "yiffit" ;D
A large, endless gallery of high quality yiff is fine by me.
But I like other things too, i.e. socializing and memes, learning new stuff, etc. and I've had some pretty negative experiences with some overzealous, power trippin' mods in the past. So, I'm curious about this instance in particular and its stance on moderation.
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How strict or loose is the overall policy?
What is the stance on expression?
What kind of content is going to be permanently off limits?
If something rubs someone the wrong way, am I to at least expect a warning? Or an imediate permanent ban?
Is there an appeals process?
Will there be advanced notice of any major changes?
How "focused" is this instance aiming to be?
I also understand that the fediverse is a relatively new concept, and not everything is fully established yet in many respects. More than anything, I'm just trying to pin down the culture of this place. I have no intention of testing these limits, but I am tying to guage just how chill this place is and if there's anything else I should know before committing.
In my experience, furries tend to be a pretty welcoming bunch, but hey, you never know.
I'm curious what other people think their ideal "furryNSFW" instance looks like, and what they want to see going forward as far as moderation is concerned.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again: Lemmy is a fantastic Reddit clone, and federation is great for persistence, but it completely lacks nuance in how content is delivered. Defederation is only going to further fragment the platform. No one is going to be totally happy with it until the onus is primarily on the individual, rather than the community or instance.
As a user, I want choice. Give me settings. Give me more control. Then if I see something I don't like, or something I'd rather change, that's on me. That sounds much better than hoping and waiting for a level-headed admin to figure it out for me, or making yet another account when they get it wrong.
We'll never get anywhere if all the admins are afraid of getting on everyone else's "bad side" for content they can barely control themselves.