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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago (8 children)

That was me. I don't really feel like modding. I was offered a few mod spots on reddit over the past 11 years, took up one or two, didn't really enjoy it.

But if everyone feels that way, then lemmy can never reach critical mass. SO i bit the bullet, created a community and hopefully someone will be interested in modding if it ever grows big.

If anyone's interested, I created maliciouscompliance (one of my favorite subs to lurk in). Mostly reposts for now, but OC should trickle in slowly.

Try joining from one of the links below:

/c/[email protected]

https://lemmy.world/c/maliciouscompliance

Or type the following in the search bar at the top: [email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (14 children)

Yes. 1000% for some of the NSFW subs I used to enjoy

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 year ago (2 children)

As a former reddit mod who's made some communities here, so far they are 0% of the work of the reddit ones (not that I was working hard on the reddit communities, I set up automod and let it run). But so far I haven't had to do any mod work here because there's basically no spam and no bots. I'm sure that will change, but I can also just recruit more mods as the communities grow.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (12 children)

I miss my cat subs. The bigger ones like OneOrangeBraincell, StandardIssueCats, and VoidCats.

And some of the specific ones like Sploot, Toolps (reverse of sploot for the unintiated), KittyCankles, ScrungyCat,

NamFlashbacks. Mainly because my I took new pictures of my cats and wanted to post them there.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

illegallysmolcats. There are not near enough cat pic subs. I NEED MORE CATS.

edit: FUCK YEAH KITTENS!

My baby Roxie when she was still a nugget: https://i.imgur.com/rFQWMgK.jpg

She's 2 now and still pretty smol at 7 pounds: https://i.imgur.com/00qeUVP.jpg

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

when my Zelda was just a kitten

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Sharing mine when they were still illegally smols

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I miss r/Psoriasis, because I have auto-immune, and I miss r/AskDentist and r/AskMechanic and all the learning based subs basically.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Yes.. like for Plex, 3d printing and other applications. Support via reddit was best around..

But seeing some new stuff would also be nice...

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (5 children)

They wouldn't let me onto Beehaw with the answer I gave to their question, so I joined the first instance I could find that looked interesting. Now I kind of feel awkward making any new communities that aren't Star Trek related lol.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

I miss r/KitchenConfidential. It was a subreddit for people who work in the food industry. I feel like I've lost my support group.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, but then I remember that my account is only 2 days old, and maybe I am just too impatient now.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Bahaha yes! Everytime I feel like things are just not there quick enough , I look at my profile and then i calm down and remember shit just don't happen and i chill out.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago

Yes. In my two or three days, I've considered making multiple, but then I remember I'd be defacto mod, and I calm down. Maybe later, but probably wait for the actual mods of those subs to make the community here.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

I started (like 2 hours ago) a Poetry community in my instance. I modded a few microscopic subreddits that never got any traffic, so I'm used to imposter syndrome as a moderator πŸ˜₯

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been trying to find an alternative to r/AskPsychology anywhere online because I've been trying to find statistics on how likely people with NPD and ASPD are to be abusive and be abused compared to the general population and have had no luck. Asking on places like Quora just results in dipshits and grifters screeching about how people with personality disorders are actual demons from literal hell (and in the latter case, shilling their blog, books, and webinars). ~Cherri

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Hi, I'm not /r/AskPsychology but I am a psychologist who likes being asked things!

From a quick literature review, antisocial personality disorder does result in three times higher odds of committing violent offenses in general, and 2.5 times higher odds of being a repeat offender (Yu et al., 2012). Generally, personality disorders do increase the risk of someone committing partner abuse, especially Cluster B symptoms (Ehrensaft et al., 2006) Among men who abuse their wives, personality disorders are present in 50%-90% β€” especially anti-social, sadistic, and borderline (Hart et al., 2011) β€” despite personality disorders being only present in 15% of the population (Grant et al., 2004). Throughout, these effects are more pronounced in men, but also present to a rather large degree in women.

Less is known regarding whether people with personality disorders are more often victimised in their relationships. Borderline perdonality disorder in women seems to increase the risk of being abused by a partner by a factor of three though (Gilchrist et al., 2012). We also know that the overwhelming majority of people with personality disorders was abused during childhood (Johnson et al., 2001, etc.) and that victims of childhood abuse are much more likely to become victims of partner violence as adults (Gilchrist et al., 2012).

In summary β€” there is strong evidence that people with personality disorders are far more likely to be abusers than the average person. There is also evidence that they are also more likely to be victims by a similar factor compared to the average person, but that evidence is more scarce. Also, anti-social, borderline, and sadistic personality disorders are more strongly associated with abusers, and borderline with victims. There's a lot of research still to be done.

Ehrensaft, M. K., Cohen, P., & Johnson, J. G. (2006). Development of personality disorder symptoms and the risk for partner violence. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 115(3), 474-483.

Gilchrist, G., BlΓ‘nquez, A., & Torrens, M. (2012). Exploring the relationship between intimate partner violence, childhood abuse, and psychiatric disorders among female drug users in Barcelona. Advances in Dual Diagnosis, 5(2), 46-58.

Grant, B., Hasin, D., Stinson, F., Dawson, D., Chou, S. P., Ruan, W. J., & Pickering, R. (2004). Prevalence, correlates, and disability of personality disorders in the United States: Results from the National Epidemiologic Survey on alcohol and related conditions. Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 65(7), 948-958.

Hart, S. D., Sutton, D. G., & Newlove, T. (2011). The prevalence of personality disorders among wife assaulters. Journal of Personality Disorders, 7(4), 329-341.

Johnson, J. G., Cohen, P., Smailes, E. M., Skodol, A. E., Brown, J., & Oldham, J. M. (2001). Childhood verbal abuse and risk for personality disorders during adolescence and early adulthood. Comprehensive Psychiatry, 42(1), 16-23.

Yu, R., Geddes, J. R., & Fazel, S. (2012). Personality disorders, violence, and antisocial behavior: A systematic review and meta-regression analysis. Journal of Personality Disorders, 26(5), 775-792.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I made a community for Dads, I was subbed to a few on the R, but didn't see much on Lemmy. If you are a dad and want to contribute to this community, please check it out!

https://lemmy.world/c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can find communities here https://browse.feddit.de/

Not all of them on every instances, but it's a good start

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Just do it anyway and randomly assign people who post there to be mods.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Absolutely, yes. There are a decent number of subreddits I enjoyed, but only as a lurker.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I made a couple communities that I use to love on Reddit. I def don’t want the control but I’m hoping the fact that the communities exist may attract more people and someone may come along who is better suited to run the show

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Yes, someone do a photography one please, where you can post your photos and talk about it

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I reluctantly created a bunch because I want to have those conversations. I figure with time we can always call for volunteers and appointment help as needed. I’m hopeful that moderating a board on Lemmy will require somewhat less effort than Reddit due to the friendlier atmosphere and lower volume.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I am absolutely desperate for a German learning sub, but at A1, I am way too new at it to be moderating one

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

True, but I don't want the controls in the first place πŸ«₯

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Totally. I suspect though that over time communities will appear for most things.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I wanna make new subs with new ideas- I just made c/pieceofmind for example, which might have a reddit analouge but it is still its own thing (for me nnaah ;u;). I also did made many reddit sub clones but I am planning to "transfer" ownership or hope some good mods come in lol, not planning to moderate subs except for a few

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I'm just making shit I missed. Hope I'm not annoying with it, but it's like if it ain't there, put it there.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’m resisting the urge to recreate r/Peloton (a sub about pro bike racing) before someone uses the name for a community based on those dumb exercise bikes.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes!! I’m with you, I’m active but not up for modding. Need Tennessee, My regional area, KidsAreFuckingStupid, and WhatCouldGoWrong.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've made- Artist Lounge, Printmaking, Collage

Not because I want to mod (never done it, and I'm autistic so it could end up becoming a nightmare) I just want to see some of my favourite communities on here

Any ex reddit mods of these subs want to re-adopt them, they're welcome to take them off my hands

edit- needed some commas

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (11 children)

I have neither the time, nor confidence to mod; but I have wondered if we should make something like a "lemmy wishlist" for communities we'd like to see ported. Seems like a good way for the lemmy community to vote on and discuss communities they'd like to see, and connect to would-be mods

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I have the opposite problem. I have a lot of subs to make and I can't figure out which to start with. Or if this is even the server I'm gonna keep, because there's a certain server I instantly discovered I want absolutely nothing to do with.

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