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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/Tumbleweed_Intrepid on 2023-10-06 18:36:53.

To start I turned 23 a few weeks ago and I’ve never had a girlfriend. The closest thing I’ve had to one was a girl who I was friends with for over 10 years developing feelings for me in high school but I didn’t want to date her because we grew up together and I didn’t see her that way. That was when I was 17 and since then it all went downhill.

I’m not sure what I am doing wrong and it is frustrating to see other guys who are fat, jobless, dickheads, or some combination of those get girls with ease and I don’t know wtf I’m doing wrong. I’m not the most psychically attractive guy in the world but I’m still in good shape and nothing is horribly wrong with me. Im not rich by any means but I’m doing well in my career and compared to most people my age. There must be something that they know that I don’t it’s the only explanation.

It’s frustrating cause people never tell you what you do wrong they just stop talking to you. I feel like if someone would actually tell me what Im doing wrong then I’d have something to work on and improve but no. They say “act like you don’t care” and I can 95% of the time because I keep myself busy but usually around my birthday is when I think about yet another year and nothing has changed. It’s so weird to me that people even say that it’s like telling a starving person “don’t care about food”