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I'm a millennial with boomer parents, who are famous for their hands-off parenting approach. Just wondering.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

@erik111189
Geriatric Millennial reporting in: nope. My boomer parents are great, and had a fantastic mixture of hands off free roaming and hands on helping. The internet didn't really factor in until my late teens.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I, too, have turned 40

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Same boat. I didn't really have good internet until I was in my teens anyway, living the 14.4kbps and 28.8kbps split between 3 brothers life.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

Millennial def raised by the internet here. I used to be on the computer non-stop until my parents got home from work. Then I would weasel my way into more computer time after dinner too. All to work on my Angelfire hosted website that definitely never got any traffic.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I'm a millennial-ish. I had a single mom and she was all-in on parenting. Although I'm not sure which part(s) of parenting you're asking about specifically. Discipline? Instilling values?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea, I think the fediverse is on average too old for this to be true of the majority, though there’s plenty of younger people in here.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah, there was no Internet when I was a kid. I was raised by the television like all good Xennial kids

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not me, I was a child before the Internet.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Thats sounds philosophical.

"I was a child before the Internet"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

oh for sure. Of course, my parents were straight up negligent so it wasnt hard for the internet to win that competition.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

i'm an older millennial/younger gen x and i was raised by books and some truly great, saintly teachers. teachers can make such a difference, yall

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I work retail and if I learn the customer is a teacher I go so above and beyond to make sure they don't pay for what they are getting(if it is for the classroom) and make sure they are very happy with the whole experience. Teachers change life's for the better and are not treated the way they need to be.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

That is so awesome. Amen.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i'm an older millennial/younger gen x

I think you either have this backwards, or might be Benjamin Button.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, this is correct. They were born between, let's say, 1978-1982. That would but them at the end of Gen X (making them a young X) or beginning of millennial (making then an older millennial)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm a dummy who read it as Gen Y, oops!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

No worries! :)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I grew up the youngest of 5 children—with all siblings >10 years older—with immigrant parents who were mostly working. So, yea, at times it does feel like the internet raised me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yup. Born in '84, parents were born in '50 and not really fit to be parents. Basically took care of myself from 11ish onwards and was raised almost entirely by TV and Internet from age 8 and 14 onwards lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

The internet didn't really exist when I was growing up, but my own parents didn't really raise me, either. I did a lot of figuring out on my own.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

"Zillenial" here and well, maybe? My parents let me use the internet with little-to-no moderation and growing up with very few friends, I would often frequent the internet. Back then, it was when the internet required dial-up so I would either be on the internet on Saturdays or stuck on my computer preparing materials to send to the internet.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Between Milennial and Gen Z. I was born in the mid-90s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

As I like to think of it … post-Jurassic Park or post Matrix Millenials. Too young to have seen those in the cinemas.

I’m a Xennial (part X gen part millennial, born mid-80s), and seeing both of those in the cinema were huge events.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Nah, internet didn't exist then.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Your boomer parents are famous for their hands-off approach? That's impressive in and of itself.

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