this post was submitted on 10 Jun 2023
31 points (94.3% liked)

Asklemmy

43812 readers
882 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy ๐Ÿ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Actually I feel excited, because Lemmy has sparked a new interest in news aggregators and the fediverse and I'm enjoying my time here a lot.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I agree, it feels a bit like the internet in the early days, where you can find mindblowing new things just around the corner with a single click

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly! And without being called names for asking questions or interacting with people.

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Fully agree, I've been TOO excited since I found out about Lemmy's existence. I can't wait to see how it progresses with so many people joining. :-)

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A little bit. What I hate is losing the communities related to my hobbies. Reddit is/was very very helpful for me. Finding new music, finding new games, discussing movies and TV, learning about weird movies or cult shows, sharing my stuff to people that find it cool... It was 11 years of that. I needed that site, so many very helpful posts. I hope whatever comes next is better. For now I'm here, waiting to see what happens.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Preach. I get that entirely.

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Reddit hasn't really been the same for a long time anyways. I liked the feel of Reddit in the old days better, and this kind of has the same vibe

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So many times in the past few months I would open reddit, stare at the uninteresting front page and close it. Especially the past few years it has taken an astronomical nosedive, and that's coming from someone who joined in 2013 which some consider too late.

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not Reddit but I feel sad for Aaron Swartz. What a monster his creation became. Thankfully Lemmy exists to fill Reddit's place.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I think Aaron would have appreciated the fediverse.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I moved to Reddit when Digg destroyed itself. It wasn't too hard to make the switch, although it did take a bit of getting used to. I imagine it'll be the same this time, or maybe a bit easier, as the format of lemmy.ml is not too different in appearance from Reddit.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I'm mostly sad about losing the communites i loved, for which I have not yet found a comarable one on lemmy. r/cars and r/cartalk mostly

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, totally. But I'm also finding extremely cool Lemmy and the concept behind the fediverse

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

The thing that's missing here most is the niche communities (I'm talking about like the ended 10 years ago tv shows and people are still posting about them). On the other hand, I noticed while most countries have 1 or 2 communities, my country already has at least 7 for specific locations and people still want to make more so it feels very much like home already

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I just keep thinking to myself, "it's the end of an era"

Reddit has been the only social network I've used for 12 years. I've watched it go through so much change over the years, but it always felt like even at its worst, it showed its users more respect and gave them more control over what content they saw than any other social network out there. I am cautiously optimistic about the future of Lemmy, but it makes me sad to watch RiF and Reddit phase out of my life.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined Reddit during the digg exodus. Before digg I was into fark and before fark, something awful.

It's good that things die. it's where new mediums come from. It also keeps the power with the user. It's an important part of the internet life cycle.

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yes and no. Reddit had become toxic and a shadow of it's former self. It was a good run for 11 years. Hopefull Lemmy can be an alternative. :)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (5 children)

12 years of reddit. It will take some time to adjust but I also switched from google to duckduckgo years ago after decades of google, and then too never looked back. Lemmy does need a LOT of work, still, but so did reddit in the early days..

To those working on Lemmy, please don't fuck this up for us. Don't be a spez.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (9 children)

It's also up to us not to fuck this up. Let's not turn this into a toxic hate-filled dystopia lol.

load more comments (9 replies)
load more comments (4 replies)
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Iโ€™m just a little frustrated that a lot of quick search solutions will only be on Reddit for a while. And asking people for help here might not be as effective as it was with Reddit. That said, like many others, Iโ€™m kind of excited about this new frontier.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yes but also no. I missed Digg when I left it for Reddit and I loved the earlier days of Reddit. Reddit was a lot of my college years from 2010-2012. Reddit felt like a very nice community back then, but it's been going steadily downhill for years and I'm not surprised it's come to this at all. Lemmy feels like a breath of fresh air, especially given that we're migrating off of corporate controlled media this time rather than just jumping ship to another proprietary platform with a limited lifespan. It hits different this time, in a good way. I'll miss the good times on Reddit and the communities there, but to be honest those communities were best in Reddit's heyday. I'll probably miss the vast amount of information that Reddit built up over the years most, that's over a decade of Internet history killed off by greed. I'm hoping moving to decentralized platforms will stop the cycle of corporate greed putting an expiration date on our Internet homes.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I view this as a fresh start. Cut off the old and grow a new one. Just like a gecko. I spent a lot of time on reddit but I can't say I ever actually connected with another person on it, there were just too many people on even the small subs I joined. Maybe lemmy will bring back the small internet forum feel and we'll actually be able to stand out from the crowd better and actually get to know each other.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey RickyRigatoni, nice to meet you :)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It feels weird. I'll still be using reddit because that is the link site i still enjoy the most. but i hope one day will be the day that something else takes over. (lets hope its not chinese like tiktok)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I feel just a bit heartbroken but at the same time I really love the concept of lemmy.

I'm just a little afraid that lemmy is just a short-lived alternative and the people go back because not everything is working perfect right now.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

That's definitely a risk. The main way of avoiding that is to stay active :D

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been trying to jump for a long time now, I used tildes for a while, but it just didn't have enough content I'm interested in. Now it seems lemmy is gaining enough steam to be my primary social media.

Reddit really peaked with the Obama ama. After that it was all downhill, the place grew too quickly to keep its culture.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

You don't have to make a hard flip, I've used this reddit protest to build out my Lemmy setup and put it in front of all my reddit shortcuts!

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm a little sad because I met my partner of nearly 10 years on Reddit on that account. I will keep the account because our original DMs are on there and would like to preserve them. Will probably wipe all the content and contributions, and just keep those DMs

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I haven't mourned the loss of social media since I left my myspace account. That was my first love

load more comments
view more: next โ€บ