Monero isn't private ?
it's private, but a bad usage can lead to being deanonymized.
Ok then what i should do ?
You mean what you should not ?
- Do no KYC related to cryptocurrency: if you can avoid it then you're not recorded as a monero user (simple as this).
- Do no CEX -> CEX XMR swaps: you have (for the minimum) to split the amount and churn funds or RingSignatures wont help you.
- Do not reuse an address: always generate a new-subaddress when it's a private payment (like it's not a donation address).
- Do not consolidate UTXOs: spend them one-by-one.
- Don't broadcast transactions to a remote-node without Tor or I2P: FeatherWallet for the win.
What you should do:
- Move received funds to new addresses at random timings.
- Use your own node (local/self-hosted node).
- Keep using NoKYC services.