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[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Haven't heard "gay" as a pejorative in real life since high school in the late 90s.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Surprised no one has posted "use a straw" yet. That's definitely one of the more common ones . Weird as shit.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago

Certain piercings are stereotypically seen as gay or feminine. Like, I've got >30 piercings, yeah, I'm going to pierce my navel.

[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (8 children)

Choosing the urinal next to another man.

Really feels kinda gay, though, especially when the dude next to you squints over.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

The one and only thing was the way I held my wrists/hands when I was younger/into my teens. What's super weird is it was my dad who brought it up and mentioned it a lot but he is super supportive of lgbtq+ that's the weird thing to me.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Listening to Frank Sinatra singing about women by a guy who used to play grab ass with men. They always find something to project their insecurity on to.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Clean my ass

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I don't live in a shithole, so nothing.

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