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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I'm curious... and slightly horny, I admit it.

Marking this NSFW in case anyone wants to get into more detail about being top / bottom / vers or sub / dom.

I'm pretty gay / male oriented myself. I do like to post good straight yiff I find, but males turn me on much more. I'd also say I'm a switch, depending on the situation, very interested in stuff like petplay, Dom/sub situations.

Anyways 0////0 HBU? Just asking for scientific statistical purposes, of course.

(I might regret posting this hehe. Admin is being horny on main... )

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[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Gay cis man.

I’m versatile, but lean more towards bottom I’d say. In some cases I’m also quite dominant. I like taking charge, but I have a hard time topping people I’m not emotionally invested in.

Sometimes I do enjoy feeling submissive and vulnerable too though.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

The great thing about this federation thing is that this thread popped up on Kbin's all feed.

I'm going to answer anyway:

Straight CIS white male, also not a furry.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Welcome! Enjoy your stay, even if it's short.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Welcome!

So... how do you find being straight?

No really, this experience is alien to me hah

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't really think about it, but I hear from people that cocks look weird, so I suppose you should imagine the difference is seeing something weird you like and have the impulse to touch, vs seeing something weird that you don't really care about and don't have the impulse to touch.

In terms of social interactions there is a position of privilege I'm in. I have experienced gay coworkers and acquaintances being mistreated. It's annoying getting along well with someone and they bust out some hot take that shows they are hateful. So I'm not subject to that treatment, and that's what I mean by privilege. I've put stuff in my ass and posted a video on fetlife, so if the conversation topic is bdsm and such I do censor myself depending on the audience.

My wife is great. We just moved into this housing coop and I've been working on little improvements. She's short so I ordered some low cabinets and countertop so she doesn't struggle to cook stuff, and seeing how happy it made her is very satisfying. She's super supportive of my hobbies, has a great sense of humor, and is very loving. I got her into Startrek and she really likes it all.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I'm all the way gay Blobfox Bongo Hyper. The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I'm very grateful for that.

According to furscience, furries are >80% queer. Who knows why - we're just a lucky bunch with a handful of comorbidities I guess.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

That’s a cool word, “comorbidity”. ^^

It’s really great that you found some peace about yourself. Hopefully more happy times now

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I’m very grateful for that.

Same here, was a core part on accepting myself. Too bad I do not have the strength to make others accept that too.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

He/him, cisgender, mostly heterosexual. I'm not sexually active.

I know I'm boring.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

CisHet male and it damned near got me to leave the fandom.

Not because I have a problem with people doing their thang with whom-/whatever, but because of people who suck ar respecting boundaries.

I have no qualms about knocking haters' teeth out and I have been gleefully derided as an SJW in defense othe comnunity in the past, though I used to tend more barbarian; that said, if I tell you to fuck off while I'm fucking off, that's not an invitation to fucking UWU at me. And no, I don't want to see your ultra realistic cock collection. Nor do I want to have anything to do with your lusts unless I specifically engage - otherwise I am cool with everyone. Talking smut does not equate to dick pic solicitation.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Bicurious Cis Male here. I find it so interesting that in the Fandom there isn't just "one" type of person, if that makes sense, and that the spectrum is all over the place. I'm just a typical, boring top I guess. I definitely enjoy Dom/Sub situations, with an affinity for BDSM.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

hmmm, dunno? If I had to say... Asexual, maybe a fem prefrence. I don't think I've ever looked at someone and felt sexual attraction. I don't really get turned on by nudity in any form.
I find BDSM situations attractive. My first "porn" searches were for horses pulling wagons. I found BDSM stuff after that and didn't find furry stuff for another 5 years or so. As far as gender cis Male.. It is what it is. I sometimes have fantasies in both gender roles and generally have no issue inserting myself as the submissive in a story in either role.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hmm.. I am full bisexual myself. So I find men and women attractive. I do really like Femboys after all. (¬‿¬ )

If I built up a relationship with someone that Identifies as trans, I wouldn't rule out the possibility of becoming their SO if they too want it. ( ̄ω ̄)

I would say I am a switch as well. Topping can be fun, but bottoming is just as much fun. I'll stop here becaise I am already flustered talking about it. (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Transfemme pan myself although I am an extremely submissive bottom and love penetration a bit too much so sexually not every body type works equally well for me (luckily strap-ons exist~)

I'm just a toy basically and I like it that way :3 Rough is fun, I quite like being held down and all as long as it stays very clearly consensual. No cnc for me please!

I'm still trying to find the perfect community for me so suggestions welcome :3

[-] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

I'm fairly straight. At least, attracted to femme. But it's a little confusing. I'm not really attracted to people specifically, but I wish I looked like them. In another life I would be a transbian. If I knew for a fact I would pass I might consider transitioning. I know that isn't the most important thing to everyone, but it's important to me. I also question whether I'm actually trans or if it's just a fetish

This confused the shit out of me growing up. I legitimately thought I was gay even though I'm not really attracted to men. Furry confused that even more because I am attracted to a lot of male furries.

I'm also fairly submissive. I can kind of Dom, but it kind of doesn't feel right being Dom as a guy.

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