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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

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The amount of cringe when reading this is beyond infinite. Like what is this cult-like preach and behavior 😂

And how much more privileged this person can be?? ”That’s why we keep coming back”. Like does she realize most people can’t afford going even once. She seems so ignorant, not relatable at all.

Also, I miss the reddit snark, it’s wrong we got banned, reddit is full of similar pages about other influencers. Is there any hope getting it back? Very ironic that this new platform is called lemmy..

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

Her idiot followers eat this crap up. It's her typical blah blah blah that really means nothing, and it's also designed to make her naysayers look like big meanies! She's just a kind, simple gal, with a gosh darn genuine love for the magic and wonder of Disney (even though her version of magic and wonder easily surpassed $15,000 for just two of them and a couple of the kids). It saves and sustains her troubled soul! They stayed at Animal Kingdom Lodge, in a room with a savannah view. The cheapest option is $694 USD/night for just 2 adults and goes up from there. $15,000 is very easily a conservative estimate. Her trying to be relatable is nauseating. She words things using "you've" because she doesn't have to save for this. She can drop this money on a whim. This trip is not remotely accessible to the average family, who scrimp and save so they can stay at one of the value resorts, in the off-season, with deals. If you have the money, great, do what you want (although I still think her fortunes were founded on lies and deception). But Jesus Christ, stop pretending you're everyone's best, relatable friend. Most people don't even have parents that will come as babysitters, let alone that will baby the ever-loving hell out of them and cater to their every whim. Her followers generally don't have the dollars to do whatever they want (and the ability to grift so many freebies, even when they could easily pay).

It's fucking gross and I hope influencer culture dies off because it's a cancer on society.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (1 children)

So wait… one can stay at the animal kingdom for less than pink cottage in Flesherton ? If animal kingdom has clean water… I’m just saying it sounds like a steal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Not for her room at Animal Kingdom! It is approximately $950/night CAD

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Omfg. But do you have to book a minimum of 3 nights like the pink cottage;)?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

That’s true!!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yeah that having to save part was outrageous. Coming from her I mean. 💯💯 Us ”normal” people really need to save for years for a trip like that.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago

She very likely didn’t pay for all/most of her trip. She’s a bitch for pretending she’s so relatable.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (3 children)
  1. nobody is forcing you to get up before 7am. That is your choice. 7am is when LL booking opens and apparently that was alllll her. LL times do not start until parks open at 9am.
  2. Your kids always annoy you. That's why you brought your mother, so you don't have to deal with them. As usual
  3. Maybe there wouldn't be so many "disappointments" if you didn't plan and control ever second of the day and be a spoiled brat when things don't go your way. It's not a "disappointment", it's called "vacationing with your family", which you know nothing of because you're always off on trips by yourself.
[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago

We all know Birdie can’t handle a tantrum from L so Nana has to be there to deal with it.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yesss all of this is spot on!! Especially 2 and 3, she apparently knows and gets nothing about vacationing with a family, she has unrealistic expectations, she thinks everything should be going by the book or otherwise it’s ruined and annoying and just an inconvience for her and her little puppet show she is wanting to portray for others. How come this mother of four knows this little about being a parent and being with kids. Still fresh in my mind the time she vented about L’s tantrum and how it made her embarrassed, completely let her down and ruined her day. She only wants the positives about having kids.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago

In Birdies world everything has to be “instagram perfect, filtered, white washed”.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

You forgot the cankers!

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

Her obsession with Disney is weird. Like she forces it too much? Who is this obsessed with a company? Like it’s just a theme park with people dressed in costumes lol.

Honestly Disney does give me a cult feeling and this post of hers doesn’t help. Trust me I know we all have our obsessions but I also don’t go around talking about the things I love this way and make it my whole entire personality lol.

Also LOL “you’ve saved to be here” yea because I’m sure you fretted about the cost of this trip 🙄 if it was difficult you wouldn’t go 10 times in a couple of years.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I’ve read posts just like this many times and no doubt she has as well. She has just taken words she’s read and made it into her own post. Just like everything else she does. Unoriginal Disney Princess Wannabe at her finest. 🤮 I hope her followers haven’t got their heart set on a Disney vacation after watching this performative clown because they would need about $30-$35,000CAD for a family of this size(including the grandparents)

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

You’re right, she’s def taken bits and pieces from other posts she’s seen. We all know she’s a plagiarist 🙄

The fact she acts like she’s been saving for months for this trip is shameful tbh. She just dropped 2 million dollars to buy a cottage and renovate it, she’s having her house renovated which is probably a couple 100 thousand dollars, and we’re meant to believe “they saved for this” give me a break. Yet her followers continue to fall for her act, it makes me sick,

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Her ‘saving’ for this was impulse buying the tickets because she deserved a break from the house reno Does she forget she told everyone what she did in her stories that day?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

She makes me suspicious of Disney adults. It’s just so lame and desperate the way she acts.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Right? I feel like she’s trying SO HARD to be noticed by Disney and have them like give her a free trip or be an affiliate or something.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

I'm certain she's on Disney's payroll. Like the very bottom of some Z list instagram marketing list, sure, but I bet a lot of these Disney adult influencers are in on the cut somehow. Like I just can't comprehend this otherwise lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

It is cult-like and presents an idealized view of the world - everything always works out in the end and we all live happily ever after. Life doesn’t work like that - bad things happen to good people and sometimes good people lose

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (3 children)

This lady is UNHINGED. Who honestly feels this deeply about a corporation? Are we sure she isn't a bot? Lol

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (2 children)

A lot of middle aged women LOVE Disney. Specifically, booking Disney trips. I know several professional women who book Disney trips as a hobby. Not just for themselves either.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s back at the end of the year for her 40th bday. The only thing stopping her would probably be not enough people would go and lord knows she needs to be surrounded by her “friends” for such an occasion.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

You’re right. She’s probably already booked the 40th birthday Disney trip.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

Boycott Disney, but also if SNL reads “middle aged” in here she will lose it so I have to upvote🤣

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

Boycott Disney

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Oh I guarantee you, the Disney Corporation has a very sophisticated shadow marketing operation

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Don't doubt it at all. I've thought for long time that this whole "Disney adult" thing is literally just top tier propaganda. It couldn't possibly be exploitative, wasteful, earth destroying capitalist bullshit because ~its okay to be a lil silly and drop $10k at an amusement park over and over again, it's the only way to truly heal your inner child~ 🫠🤑

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Also, I am trying to like this lemmy page, but it’s hard, just seems so chaotic to me. I try to put posts in the order by newest post but it won’t work. Not all posts can be seen by using a regular browser.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago

I miss the Reddit page too :( I am glad we do have this but i miss everyone on Reddit and I miss all we had gathered. I think it’s such a shame we got punished.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I hated this post by her so much. The having to save was such garbage. I feel so icky when she tries to interact with the kids. Even J doesn’t play along much anymore. B is always trying to be recognized/seen/heard in the background and mostly ignored. We know M is over it/shy. Good for her. They should all boycott their mother’s narc bullshit! I just find her over posting of her super privileged and tone deaf trip so gross.

Also I’m pissed that the other sharks still exist on Reddit. The Al Mc one was nasty and mean to the max! I’m glad we have this as an outlet but it’s not the same.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I agree about J. She used to love being on Sarah’s videos and even she doesn’t seem to want to anymore. Glad the kids are trying to distance themselves from being Sarah’s content.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

She is pushing her privilege in people’s faces like a cream pie. The fact she mentions bringing her parents along is unnecessary.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

Like I get she’s an influencer and it’s her income but lady needs to stfu and be on vacay and maybe post the high points like normal people do!!! We don’t need to know where she’s staying and with whom. I want her to fuck off. And when she’s done fucking off I’d like her to fuck off again. And then she can fuck all the way off and so can her high horse (sorry, horse. Get a new gig!)

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I sense the PMDD coming in full throttle now that she’s back to “reality”

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

PMDD is out and a new ailment is coming in hot ….. ADHD

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Somehow, her losing weight will be bc of a new med she takes that also has miraculously cured her PMDD; who knew?! Wait for it

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Didn't she have a bunch of runs to complete in June?? What happened to that?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Probably marked walking around Disney as “running”.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

The only thing running, is her mouth

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

her canker filled mouth

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

I think she has until the end of August to finish them but used June as a flex to someone who said she doesn’t workout

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago

"Pay money, receive happiness" is just so typically corporatist. Ridiculous, absurd amounts of money. Sometimes, more than an entire family makes in a whole year.

Even better when it's used as a blackmail for children's happiness. Trying to make it seem like spending 5 figures USD is some quintessential part of life, otherwise your children will not have a complete childhood.

21st century economics at its ~~worst~~best here, everyone!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Didn’t she make the same post about Disney being not all magical before or am I having Deja vu?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 months ago

Sarah doesn’t worry about contradicting herself. If it’s a story it just goes away and she picks a different lane the next day.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

She def did

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

I have the same sense. Think you are right !

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