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Not sure if this is the place to post, but I've moved a lot recently and there aren't really any queer folks where I live. I'm looking for some kind of discord or something to chat and vent and just feel a little less alone.

I'm pretty old and I've "completed" my transition, and I'm always happy to share my experiences or knowledge if people are interested.

And apologies if this isn't the right spot for this post.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

There's a blahaj matrix chat, lemme just find the link to it

Edit: here's the link https://matrix.to/#/#genderverse-chat:chat.blahaj.zone

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Maybe I'm dumb, but I can't access this

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Have you made a matrix account?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I tried to, I'm not sure where? The link I followed did not seem to let me, but as I said, sometimes I struggle with tech.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

go to this web address: https://app.element.io/#/register and then put in either matrix.org or chat.blahaj.zone as your homeserver. the page should look like this once you've done that:

once you've set up an account try clicking through the link to the chat i sent you again

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

I’m pretty old and I’ve “completed” my transition, and I’m always happy to share my experiences or knowledge if people are interested.

Twinsies :)

But as GarfGirl has mentioned, if you've got a matrix account, I co-admin a matrix space that might be of interest. It's not as convenient as discord, but, it's decentralised and federated, and not hosted by a corporation driven by profit above everything else. So if that stuff is important to you, you're welcome to give it a try

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

the transplace discord is nice

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Do you know where I could find a link?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

F1NN5TER's discord server is pretty chill.