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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Randomly came across mine. Was gunna join a larger instance just for testing, but it was right as the big Reddit rush was happening and my signups kept failing.

So I went with this one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

SDF has been around since the 1980's. It is one of the most historically trustworthy institutions on the Internet.

I've been an SDF member since 2001.

So it just made sense to use my community's instance of Lemmy, since I also use their Pixelfed and Mastodon.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I tend to hang in indie game development subreddits and didn't want to have to deal with confrontational trolls on a regular basis, so programming.dev felt like a relatively safe choice since it's neither a super large server or a general-purpose one. I just wanna make lil' games and have little patience for those lacking in empathy and maturity.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Programming.dev represent! πŸ™ŒπŸ½

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I chose beehaw. I chose wrong. So now I'm on lemmy.world and nothing was lost 😎

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

lemmy.world is more open and performant than lemmy.ml and Beehaw.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I actually made my home in the one hosting a previous reddit community I was fond of, just choose one u like.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Joined sh.itjust.works since it's located in North America, has open registration, and the admin sounds like he knows what he's doing running a server. I've stayed 'cause it's been stable and I like the admin's vibe. It and lemmy.world seem to have become the main large "general purpose" instances since they both have open registration.

I also have an account on kbin that I'm not using much at the moment. I think that site has lots of future potential, though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I picked my regional one (technically also better for latency)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I chose kbin, loved the integration with mastodon

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t see the appeal of mastodon but that’s a neat feature.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I like microblogging platforms; they allow me to get information faster (albeit less information) than these types of posts.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

lemmy.ml says they are overloaded, I then found beehaw but they requires signup application so I say fuck it and choose lemmy.world instead.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I joined mander.xyz because it has a central theme around the natural sciences. It could possibly include STEM content as well; there is an ongoing discussion about it. The admin(s) are present and very responsive.

For anyone with a love of science and/or nature I recommend it highly as a home instance of Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I chose programming.dev because i am a programmer and developer.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was looking for a furry one, and pawb.social seemed to be well-run (since it was related to a couple of decently-sized Mastodon servers) and was generic enough (and not NSFW focused). There also seemed to be a decent number of technical people there as well (in fact, one of the Mastodon instances is furry.engineer), so it matched up with my other interests as well. I considered lemmyrs.org, but ended up not choosing it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

same, went for the furry one.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.world: because it was the top result on Google and I neither knew about the other servers nor remembered my experiences with Mastodon.

Probably going to stay here anyway.

Mostly out of laziness

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Kbin because it was the first one that actually let me register and didn't freeze

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Seriously, this. I tried for days to register on Lemmy. One day I was mid-registration and the button was just spinning, doing nothing, so I came over to kbin, registered and started using the site. Lemmy never stopped spinning. No thanks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Nice username :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This was linked on some post about alternatives to that other site I want to stop using. And honestly I'm quite confused on the "it doesn't matter/it does matter" so I'm just rolling with it and not trying to worry about it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world solely on the fact it had a lot of members. Lemmy.ml was a contender too. I just wanted to jump in and check things out. Knowing (slightly)more now, I don't think it was a bad choice.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

feddit.dk. I wanted a regional instance as my home instance, because they tend to be chill with controlled growth, while also having native language discussions. My country didn't have a Lemmy instance at the time, so I picked the closest option. I love Denmark and they don't seem too annoyed by my presence (yet). Thanks for having me 🫢🏻 πŸ‡©πŸ‡°

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I went with lemmy.ca because I figured it'd put me in proximity to Canadian Political discourse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world after lemmy.ml closed their registration. Just glad I made my account somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not gonna lie. I've got multiple accounts across platforms. But yours seems to be responding quickly and the content is solid, so... here I am.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I was a bit confused at the start and in my haste created a few different accounts across kbin, lemmy.world, and Mastodon. Worst case scenario I have backups and I'll just end up using the instance I prefer the most, the most.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I joined @lemmy.world because the admin @[email protected] had a lot of experience running a large Mastodon instance, and @lemmy.ml was asking folks to go elsewhere.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Same. Finding an instance with the best community or matching interests felt silly when everything is changing quickly and discovery is still underbaked. I went with Lemmy.world because they seemed like the most capable admins.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm on Beehaw because there are no downvote button

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But what would happen if I down voted you from a different instance?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't know but I think there is more chance to get downvoted on the instance you are than on other instances