My own private theory is that of any larger group of people, approx. 30% are complete and utter twats.
this post was submitted on 19 Mar 2024
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In my experience it depends. Sometimes the twat to non-twat ratio is closer to 50/50. Sometimes 80% of them are utter twats. At every workplace it's like there are entire political parties of different types of twats all being twats to everyone, sometimes even other twats.
See, your theory fits within the framework of OP's. OP is suggesting that, in friend and highly-competitive groups, the twat-ratio is much lower, say in the lower tenth percentile. In OP's "valley" of interest and professional groups, the ratio may be closer to your 50:50.
So, we could form a Unified Twat Theory, where the ratio of twats-to-competence is inversely proportional to the severity of the selection criteria.
I leave the proof as an exercise for a grad student.
I buy it. The one way you might get around that is by forming a group of non-twats. But even then you'd need the ability to see into their souls to be sure
Yeah, bad actors are still an issue.
My son goes to a Lego group once a week, and until this month it’s been a great group of helpful, quiet tinkerers.
Then a mom with kids in a local private school showed up, and now the organizer has had to break up a fight, and basically let them know they won’t be welcome if they keep touching other kids (2 of the 4 kids are too young as well).
Groups that keep certain people out will definitely ferment twats.
I would go the other way around but maybe im the twat and that's why. Man, this made me reevaluate.
This guy again?
(Kidding...
wait... maybe I'm the twat. ...crap)
That's because 30% of people are complete and utter twats, and two thirds of the remaining people aren't great either.
That's a good point: it isn't that bad apples spoil the bunch, being that "swedes" and "men named Tom" isn't spoiled by the bad apples therein. Cops in the USA are bastards because the inherent organizing force is bastardy.
Apples should be like astronauts...they are grouped in the bushel based on performance (quality, not being rotten).
If detection slips, or one is massively damaged during handling or a pest sneaks in, the group is fouled. It should not be a normal distribution but a heavily filtered one.
"One bad apple spoils the bunch" because if one rots, it emits a waste gas that accelerates spoiling of nearby apples
And a problem with a lot of people in this day and age is that they like to associate anyone who has a differing opinion than them with those bad apples
Nuh uh not the ones I like, only the ones that do things I don't like are bad!
The point was never that any group of people should always be perfect. The point is that you have to search out and get rid of the bad apples to prevent spoiling.
This can be repeatedly observed on Discord. You get a great server going and all it takes is a couple of twats to spoil the entire ecosystem.
Hey man, Tom was everybody's friend, and then just fucked off to do his own thing. Stop bad mouthing Tom.