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So people gave me some advice at one point. There's someone I'm talking to right now and we are both getting way too invested with each other. (hexbear.net)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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We talked for 14 hours one day, not in one go, but throughout two seven hour conversations.

I have some treatment coming up that I really need to be focusing on before romance with this woman.

How do i get her off my mind?

Right now is not a good time... I need to take care of myself first before entering any sort of relationship.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

You can't get her off your mind.

The best way is to tell her that you have treatment coming up that you need to be focusing on before spending more time talking with her.

You will see how she reacts. Hopefully she'll support you in that decision. If not, then it'll be much easier to get her off your mind, because then she sucks, lol

Then you simply have to accept that she's on your mind. Notice you're thinking of her, and gently shift your thoughts away to other things. It'll happen often, and it'll be distracting, but that's fine.