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Until someone introduces a way to tell the difference between these three things, we are lost as a society. (hexbear.net)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

This sounds like a distinction the German language was meant to solve.

My version is:

You should have a podcast - I would subscribe.
You should have a podcast - there are others who would love this, but I am not your target audience.
You should have a podcast - by which I mean shut the fuck up.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Ideally people would just communicate these sentiments? Shocking idea I know ✨

For example, when I say I "added something to my backlog" for instance, it means I actually literally did. It's no guarantee that the book(Hi Unjust Depths, I plan on you) or w/e won't end up lost in the backlog for however long, but it means I had enough interest to want to keep the thing around.

For me, when it comes to someone talking to or messaging me I will almost never not reply, and if I stop replying it means I think the conversation is over. But normals gonna normal Ig!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I will say though not everyone who fucks up about this is NT like I know ND people with social phobia who dont want to say no. Or ADHD means they just see it and forget lol. But yes I agree people communicating these things would be a big help.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I don't see why they don't communicate these things, like just be honest??

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Idk ive run into a lot of difficulties with ND to ND miscommunication along these lines so its weird. Like ideally I agree with you but I think some people struggle with it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Doesn't really surprise me either tbh, there are ND people that do social shenanigans akin to those typically associated with NTs. I had hoped ages ago that other autistic people would be easier to get on with, but uh pain

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Why bother? They can just remind you no matter what and it's not like you'll give up on their service, where else can you even go? No lose situation on their part. Eat your hamburgers 😈

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

This is about social interactions and usually I'm the one who doesnt know which of these three things it means.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Classic fundamental misunderstanding moment walter