this is something ive commented about but it is incredibly trivial to check someone's pronouns. even if they aren't in the name just open their profile to see if it's in the profile blurb, its incredibly fucking simple and if someone misgenders someone on lemmy it is completely their fucking fault. I know I got into a bit of an argument about this recently and it was frustrating how many users seemed to not fret too much about it ('as long as im using they it's completely okay right?' explosion) I do kinda wish i had a proper Women forum here to post in (though I probably wouldnt be interested in modding anything lmao). I do definetly want the ability to bitch about hating men without feeling like I'm stepping on anyone's toes.
Frankly I've been a biit afraid to go full tilt on transmisogyny posting because I expect to get a serious amount of pushback which i mean is pretty but like that kind of is how it is yknow