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An Unexpected Dress (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

[CW?: supportive family member]

Hii girls! Omg I just had an amazing experience with my mom and I needed to share. My mom and I have been chatting about online shopping and my mom had just bought some dress and a maxi skirt. She showed me both and I said they both look cute and how she had such a good taste.

Then she explained the dress didn’t really fit her well and then I noticed she hesitated to ask me something. And I was like mommm what’s up and she asks me if I wanted to try the dress. I said yes!! Omg and girls the dress looked so unexpectedly great on me I almost cried. I needed a hug and told my mom this made me so happy. She was like: ooohh but then it’s so clear to me now. It’s so clear. 🥰 She told my I could have the dress 😊 Then she pulled out other dresses for me to try.

I told her it was so great to have our first “mother daughter”-moment and we both had tears in our eyes of happiness. That’s allll! Sending you all my love ❤️

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You are incredibly lucky to have a mom like her. Happy for you ☺️

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago

Thank youuu! Yes she’s truly amazing 😊 I’m baking her an apple pie this weekend as a little thank you for the happy moment and the dress ☺️

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago

That's wonderful! Thank you for sharing such joy

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago

That's so cool and heartwarming to hear!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

Oh that hits me right in the feels. I lost my mother last year, before I had the chance to come out to her. So I'll never get to experience that mother-daughter relationship.

But that means I am super happy for you, and my other siblings with supportive parents. That's really beautiful <3 I have tears in my eyes for you too.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

Whoa, that's incredibly cute! ✨
It's inspiring to read how well you communicated!