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I personelly think lemmy users doesn't just have that reddit feel where if you referenced something most people will get it or when you say something everyone will say the same thing and fill the thread .and people on lemmy seems to think they are absolutely right.

(EDIT :I am not saying i miss these thing or like them even though i kinda do i am just saying things like that were a part of reddit culture like how 4chan have their on culture. Like lemmy is supposed to be a reddit alternative but now there are no niche subs and everyone is too into politics it just doesn't feel like a reddit alternative .) .

I have been on lemmy for more than 2 months and i mostly lurked or had temp accounts with different usernames (there were only one or two which i have now closed) but this place seems more serious than lighthearted fun but i will still stay here becuase f**k corpos . So these are my views and opinion what do you guys think ?

EDIT: I must include one thing which is on reddit i have never had a real account i just made one or two the entire time i used it which were throwaways that i used to view a post from "subs that are not reviewed" and may not be safe (unless in their app of course -logic.exe missing) or comment . Here i have aldready decided to create a permanent account and start contributing to the communities and i have only been here for 2 months. And i guess i just used reddit to access information and just didn't felt the need to have an acc or contrubute .END RANT.

EDIT : DO READ THE EDITS.

EDIT : I AM NOT IMPLYING OR EVEN WANT ANYONE TO GO BACK I REALLY DO WANT LEMMY TO BE BETTER . I AM NIT SHOUTING I AM JUST AFRAID SOME PEOPLE ARE GETTING THE WRONG IDEA . AND FOR WHAT ITS WORTH IN MY OPINION REDDIT IS SHIT COMPARED TO LEMMY. SO PLEASE NO ONE GO BACK AND IF YOU HAVE ANY REDDIT FRIENDS INVITE THEM HERE.

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[–] [email protected] 141 points 9 months ago (3 children)

The difference for me is Reddit started treating it's loyal users like sellable assets. I loved Reddit, it was a comfort zone for a long time, but they betrayed my trust, so I left and I have no intention of returning.

I doesn't matter if Reddit is really dead or not. They are dead to me.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (6 children)

Not just the amen, but the awomen and the achildren too.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

Yeah dead to me too though now and again i go there for informarion with adblock of course.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy not catching on and Reddit dying aren't mutually exclusive, unfortunately. I personally know quite many users who left Reddit, but never made the jump over to Lemmy, because they mostly stayed on Reddit due to particular communities. With those communities getting decimated during the APIcalypse and its fallout, they had little incentive to join Lemmy.

Ultimately my personal opinion is that Lemmy is going to persist, even if it doesn't cross certain thresholds, it is still a part of the larger Fediverse and due to its interoperability, Lemmy can benefit from the success of the Fediverse, even when not being all that successful by itself.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

Ultimately my personal opinion is that Lemmy is going to persist, even if it doesn’t cross certain thresholds, it is still a part of the larger Fediverse and due to its interoperability, Lemmy can benefit from the success of the Fediverse, even when not being all that successful by itself.

Exactly

[–] [email protected] 48 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

It seemed to me like Reddit basically drove off half their content creators AND Lemmy didnt really steal too much of Reddit's userbase (around 1%)

I stopped posting there when it was clear they were hell bent on enshitifying the site. It was kind of dead here for a while after that and still isnt where reddit was/is contentwise but its getting there slowly. It is certainly to a point where I dont feel like going back to reddit for anything.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

It seemed to me like Reddit basically drove off half their content creators AND Lemmy didnt really steal too much of Reddit's userbase (around 1%)

Yeah, this has been my experience as well. Reddit likes to say "all the shitty people left and went to Lemmy", and they seem half right - a bunch of people did leave. But most of the content of reddit is extremely stale now. And most of the shitty people that left reddit didn't go to Lemmy, they just fucking left.

Sure, some Lemmy instances have attracted garbage, but most of the threads here are like 1% of the amount of posts but 80% of the content I care about so it just feels more efficient. Less garbage to trudge through, especially in the comments.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (11 children)

Reddit: 80% absolutely vacuous memes or self references. Gimme gimme dopamine I want more pls. 20% political news

Lemmy: Same but more like 50/50. Small percentage of very satisfying human or creative content like Reddit of old. Also every person is convinced they're right about everything and you're a moron for thinking different.

Mastodon: Everyone's a game developer or an artist, very high quality content but makes you feel useless in your life

Twitter: WTF why does Tucker Carlson live here now when did this happen

Bluesky: Lol

Meta: GREETINGS FEDIVERSE HUMANS. MAY I EXAMINE YOUR DATA FOR PURELY ETHICAL REASONS PLEASE

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Lemmy won but Reddit didn't lose.

Lemmy culture was great during the initial exodus, but now sometimes I don't feel like I belong here. On Reddit, you could often find your subculture. I want the fediverse to succeed tho.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

Why not make the community you want? I made !micromobility on Lemmy and people seem to like it.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

Do heelys count as micromobility?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I did. [email protected]

I'm constantly on the verge of giving up on it because nobody posts except me 💀

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I think that's the answer. But have to make a community with broad enough scope to draw enough people to be active I think? E.g. instead of fountain pens: writing instruments so you get the pen, pencil, typewriter, etc. fans.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Ads. I loathe them. I will not engage with your community that forces adds.

Sure, I miss Reddit, and Youtube, and Netflix, etc., but I'm happier having stood for my principles.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I just think Kbin is neat!

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 9 months ago

I don't really care, as long as I can keep avoiding it I'm fine. I replaced my muscle memory which was what kept me going there for so long. For the rest, we'll see how things go.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 9 months ago (1 children)

that reddit feel where if you referenced something most people will get it or when you say something everyone will say the same thing and fill the thread

I think that's what people want to get away from for the most part.

I like the more serious discussions, and when there is humour it tends to feel more genuine than just a rehashed joke. Reddit definitely has more content though, and more discussion on specific communities (formula 1 being one example, here there'll be 1-5 comments on a thread that on reddit will hit 200+).

Right now I use both, I think they both have their place, but I do prefer lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

The top 3-5 comments on Reddit are always low effort jokes or puns.

I still try to be silly occasionally on lemmy even though my sarcasm is rarely noticed. I don't care I still prefer it here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I used to play a game where I guessed the top comment on a post. I was right more than I'd like!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 9 months ago

Honestly, I do wish more people used Lemmy, especially for more posts and engagement for certain communities. But also, I like the smaller user base on Lemmy. I only lurked on my old reddit account because it was too populated to have real discussion. Here I feel more comfortable commenting or posting because it feels like there's a chance my comment will be seen. Also, I just don't care all that much about being on social media anymore. Feels better to have more healthy activities.

If Lemmy ever picks up, great I guess. If not, oh well. As long as I don't have to use that godforsaken reddit app, I'm fine.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Except that Lemmy did catch on.

It didn't catch on to the point that it got as big as Reddit, but anyone who expected that is a fool. It caught on to the point that it's viable - it's not going anywhere. And as time goes on, it's going to continue to grow. And that's sufficient, and really IMO to its advantage. Lemmy has a different feel from Reddit, and I like it better. And the new users it attracts over time are going to be people who appreciate it. And if the bulk of the meme-regurgitating karma whores stay on Reddit, all the better for Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I have no idea and don't have the time now to check, but I'm curious what the initial user base for Reddit was when people left digg in comparison to the Reddit to Lemmy move, also how long it took for Reddit users to overtake digg users

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 months ago

Yeah, that's pretty much it. I can't go on r/all anymore without blocking 99% of subreddits. It's all garbage. Meme after stale fucking meme and copies of memes and memes on top of memes inside of memes and ughhh. A waste of electricity and everyone's time and the only reason anyone participates is because it give the illusion of social interaction without actually providing it. There are some decent niche subreddits that still have living communities, but a significant fraction of "interactions" on reddit generally are bots circlejerking bots to get their karma threshholds so they can spam with Spez's approval. The general user isn't allowed to use an app so they can force you onto the main app, but botspammers can abuse the API all day long because it give the impression of a userbase that doesn't actually exist ahead of their IPO. I would guesstimate the number of active bots on reddit right now is higher than the number of active humans.

Fuck reddit.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Reddit feels very hollow to me, and it's something I've noticed more having avoided it for several months. On the Steam Deck subreddit for example, nearly all the posts are 'hey I just got my Deck!' and it's just people fishing for upvotes. Endless pointless posts and rarely any meaningful discussions. I don't think Reddit is dying and I hope it doesn't, because every now and then it's super useful when you find some old post from 2011 where the poster had the exact same niche IT issue as you with a helpful solution. The culture in general over there sucks though.

I've found a good mix of serious and lighthearted content on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

Yeah and not it’s not just with the Steam Deck either, it’s basically every hobby subreddit. 3D printing is a ton of “I just got my Ender 3 can’t wait to do my first print!”, Xbox is “Just got my Series X can’t wait to play!”, self hosting is “I just bought this Optiplex off eBay what should I host on it?!”, etc, etc, etc.

I stopped following a bunch of subreddits way before the API changes due to basically half my feed being crap like that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

On the Steam Deck subreddit for example, nearly all the posts are 'hey I just got my Deck!' and it's just people fishing for upvotes.

Yeah i too hated that.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

and reddit's worst part are here so reddit is now better.

Reddit's worst part is Spez. I hope Spez isn't here.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago

All I care about is not being forced advertisements

[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Don't care, reddit deaddit.

Gotta hop off the eshittification train somewhere.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (4 children)

I'm here, but would still be on reddit if their app didn't suck compared to what I was used to before the API purge. I still prefer reddit's content, but hate how I have to view it now so I'm here with y'all trying to blend in.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

everyone will say the same thing

Glad that was left behind

no niche subs

We don't have enough people yet. It'll happen if we grow.

more serious and politics

I think the people who had strong enough opinions to leave reddit probably have strong opinions about other things too

Reddit had its time, I'm ready for something different. I can still use it as stackoverflow 2 when I need to google something lol

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I genuinely never engaged with Reddit at all, so I'm not in a position to compare, but I don't think the numbers suggest that Reddit "is dying" or even that it got significantly impacted.

Which is fine by me. If anything, the vibe here is less Reddit and more "late 90s/early 00s forums" and that's an improvement on my book.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I agree with you and in a way both sides are right.

The folks who want the nice vibe and early web feel like it here better, and the ones who stayed on Reddit are happy us old hackers aren't olding up the place anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

I'm really not sure where this argument could come from that somehow all the bad drained out of reddit?

Every time I visit that site, I'm met with 200 reposts.

Yes, we get it, you're not happy with your earning power as a young person. Yes it is indeed very sad that somebody you once saw in a TV show died. You don't like the politics of your region, I understand.

I literally do not even understand why people go there anymore, there is nothing novel or meaningful to be gained from visiting that site.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Eh, I go back on Reddit every few days, it's definitely worse. Faker, more moderated than before (tons of deleted posts and banned users). People are the same assholes as usual though so that hasn't changed much. Also these communities take time to grow, alternatively, there is nothing wrong with them being small either.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

Reddit blocked my favourite app (Apollo) and now block every IP I use (proton VPN) so I don’t use it because they’ve made it too hard to use; not because I hate them.

Don’t get me wrong, I think reddit itself is a terrible company who I feel better not supporting, but I’m not going to act like there isn’t value to the content hosted there.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

I mean, do people think reddit will get better once it IPOs?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I go back to reddit occasionally for certain things, and I'm always instantly reminded how many more trolls and alt right losers reddit has. So I think it's safe to say we have the better community, even if reddit isn't dying.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I don't really have a choice, Reddit became unnavigatable. But still it's true, we're all vegan DIY communists here, so careful where you tread... Redditor

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What's being called "worst" changes from one platform to another, and also the metric for thriving/success/failure/dying. So, more objectively, here's what I believe that will happen:

  • [Almost sure] Reddit will die in the next 1~2 years. The death will be caused by noise, brain drain, lack of moderation, and higher-up abuse. Reddit is by no means as resilient as Twitter.
  • [Somewhat certain] The "Fediverse forums" will enjoy some moderate success. They won't become as big as Reddit, but they'll get way bigger than they are now.
  • [Somewhat certain] Lemmy and Mbin will become part of a plurality. Other forum platforms for the Fediverse will appear, and compete with both internally.
  • [Uncertain, but worth mentioning] Lemmy will become rather small in said plurality, as one of those in-Fediverse alternatives will have killer features that Lemmy won't develop due to lack of interest, in a vicious cycle.
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Your first part about references was one of the things I disliked the most about Reddit where someone would make a pop culture reference and it would spiral into.a comment chain of just quotes with no originality, I'm glad that hasn't caught on in Lemmy.

My second least favourite thing, US defaultism, is alive and well on Lemmy unfortunately. On Reddit you would be told it's an American website and to deal with it, well this is the fediverse and I don't want to deal with it. Just say where you are from or what country news are about, it's not much to ask.

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