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A place for those that got both Autism and ADHD, those confirmed as one and are suspecting they got the other as well, and also everyone who is neither and just genuinely curious.

Since the combo comes with its own set of challenges, this shall be a place to ask for advice, vent, infodump about special interests and/or just vibe and meme.

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But for me it's accurate either way, so I don't care. πŸ˜‡

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even as a straight/cis man with ASD, I've regularly found lgbtq+ communities to be more accepting of me as a person than straight communities. I'm happy to be represented by gay infinity

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I'm a straight male. Before I even knew I was autistic back in high school in the 90s, I used to be part of the Pride Student Club because they were so nice to me compared to others.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

To gayfinity... And beyond.

Insert buzz light-year meme

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I mean, if he wants his dick sucked within the next 30 minutes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

If he put his back into it it shouldn't take anywhere near that long

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

please keep it SFW here

edit: This is a reminder. Not a warning. I know queer culture well enough to know that discussions about that particular app tend to escalate. There is a line to consider at which I am forced to take action. It was not crossed yet and I would prefer it to stay that way. Keywords: "keep" and "please".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Man, being gay sounds like it has some perks. For me to pull that off with a girl, I'm gonna have to spend some money and potentially get arrested.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Austims emblem should be a train.

Have a little fun with it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You're not wrong... but what about us tank- and spaceship-autists?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

A Kerbal Space Program Rocket with Jeb wearing earphones

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cat Autist checking in. There's a cat riding whatever vehicle we settle on, right?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Riding? I hope not. The cat is supposed to be piloting and if it isn't who is?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The cats servant. The cat is in the backseat napping. πŸ’š

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Infinitely gay... I have finally found my flag!!!!!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Gotta tell ya, most people with ASD are queer as fuck so it still suits

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The infinity symbol is too cold and generic, I think I blocked about 60 of these AliExpress knockoff ads on tw_tter.

There's an old logo for Safe Place, which was to designate places where homeless or abused children could seek help. Something like that which evokes a feeling of safety or perhaps related to the senses would be a better starting point:

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Maybe it's just my brainrot, but I see a stubby-armed skeleton backlit by a cloud.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Me: Is that Cthulhu in a house?

Looks closer

Oh, it’s just two people hugging.

Now I’m disappointed there is no Cthulhu.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

And? What’s the problem? Lmao /joking tone

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Polyamory uses the infinity symbol (ethical non-monogamy).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I have a shirt with just that logo. I'm non binary so yay rainbow. And also stealth showing my neurology but only to those in the know. Double yay.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

isn’t that the meta/facebook pride logo?

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Everything needs a symbol or flag now. Tribalism is trendy again and isn't backfiring at all.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

i dont think autistic people are joining a sexuality war. flags don't mean tribalism

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I am in a good mood right now, so I'll make an effort to understand your point.

What's wrong with symbols or flags in general? What do you mean with "Tribalism"? Looking at the definition, I don't get your statement... Mankind was always organised into some kind of groups or tribes. It's not at all a new penomenon. And what exactly is the backfiring about? I guess it's meant sarcastically, but I don't know what exactly you're hinting at.