“J.R.R. Tolkien has become a sort of mountain, appearing in all subsequent fantasy in the way that Mt. Fuji appears so often in Japanese prints. Sometimes it’s big and up close. Sometimes it’s a shape on the horizon. Sometimes it’s not there at all, which means that the artist either has made a deliberate decision against the mountain, which is interesting in itself, or is in fact standing on Mt. Fuji.”
This Terry Pratchet quote pretty much restructured how I thought about writing fantasy or sci fi- you'll always be compared to Star Wars or Star Trek or Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones all you can do is pick the path which will lead to the best story for you to tell.