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[–] [email protected] 96 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm a school bus driver and by far the weirdest experience (which I have regularly) is driving a busload of middle school or high school girl athletes (almost all white) somewhere and listening to them sing along to music with the n-word in it. They do not skip the n-word.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago

they wouldn't be edgy and cool if they did.

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[–] [email protected] 94 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Just say ninja, every time. All those songs can be fun songs about ninjas.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Did you notice a sign out in front of my house that said "Dead Ninja Storage"?

No. I didn't.

You know WHY you didn't see that sign?

Why?

'Cause it ain't there, 'cause storing dead ninjas ain't my fucking business, that's why!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Go ninja, go ninja, go!

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Jokes aside, I'm about 95% sure Elmo is supposed to be black-coded

[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're not wrong, Sesame Street was developed to look like Harlem. It's been very much about black representation in every aspect they could consider since the very early days.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Huh, even as a young child in Australia I kind of was aware sesame street was from a rougher area, although safe. Wonder how I clocked that even though it was never explicit

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The result of a very creative dude who had a vision of exactly how he wanted convey his message so everyone felt included.

We still miss you Jim.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Sesame Street and Avenue Q were closer than we thought.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Black guy here:

I give all you motherfuckers the Nigga Pass. I hereby bestow you all the title of Honourary Niggaz.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Was there a South Park episode where Tolkien had his allowance cut off, and made up for it by selling "Nigga Passes" to the school? Or did I dream that?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Person here: I give you the homie badge

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Another person here: and I gave you..let's just say you should probably schedule a doctor's visit.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Honestly, this is why I don't listen to music with the n-word in it. If I'm not allowed to speak that word, I don't want it in my subconscious.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

Yeah this is the one instance where idgaf I'm saying it.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nah. I listen to 90s hip hop quite a bit. No way around the word.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I do the same, but this is really the issue with words some people are allowed to say but others aren't. Hearing something all the time and not saying it just isn't something we're built for. So it's kind of like encouraging a cultural separation.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

If I recall correctly, many organizations that advocate in the interest of black people prefer no one use the word.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

If it's in the song I like I just go along with. Me doing that isn't in any negative way. If the artist don't like some people say it, they shouldn't put in there.

Skipping it or bleeping it out is like censoring art.

This reminds of when Kendrick Lamar got a white girl on stage and let her sing along with him. As soon she drops the n-word he stops the song and she got shit from everybody there.

He did give her a second try on the song.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I once worked with a black dude who said the word all the time. One day we were talking hella shit about our boss and all kinds of n words flying out of his mouth, and I let one loose too, froze, and looked at him and he didn't even give a shit.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (21 children)

I'm curious, is there another word that have the same taboo status as the n-word? I've never heard of another word that can only be uttered if you have the right shade of skin. What a stupid world we live in, seriously.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm not speaking from any position of authority here, but I think it has more to do with being in the right culture, not the right skin color like some people imply.

There are urban white kids who grew up in the projects who use the same language as their black peers, and I think generally no one cares. However, when someone outside that culture uses that language, it's not something they use for normal speech and there's probably some other motivation behind it. It's just like in a lot of people's speech they say "bro" but it doesn't mean brother. To people outside the culture it means black person, but they use it like others use "bro". It doesn't really mean anything.

Reiterating, I have very little experience with this. It's just my observations. I've known black people who it'd be weird for them to use this language and seen white people who it's just a normal part of their speech.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's called "reappropriation", and there are words in other groups, such as the LGBT community, which are only considered "acceptable" when used by members of the in-group.

https://www.grammarly.com/blog/pc-and-reclaimed-words/

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

When the artist makes the audience do the chorus in a gig, Elmo better not fuck it up

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Unless you're Korean. "Ni ga" (니가) literally means "you" in Korean. With the not-so-recent surge in popularity of Kpop globally, I know there's been more than one outraged person accusing Korean rappers of racism for saying "you" in their own language.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (3 children)

"Brother" scans and rhymes, and (probably) won't get your ass kicked.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

You got that right, my ninja.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I just make a record-scratch sound instead of say the word if it's in a song I'm singing. If people think that's lame then I'll live with that. I do NOT want to get comfortable saying that word; I'm the same shade as printer paper.

I had a friend get very comfortable with the phrase "yeaaahhh, ma nizzle" (substitute nizzle for the word it's code for, because I can confirm after using a perfectly acceptable word similar to snickering it will be removed and also I don't wanna type it).

One day, we're at a very rough pub in Digbeth. Lots of drinks had. We're all sat at a table outside, behind my friend are two very large, very black bouncers. One legit looked like the Hulk and capable of casually ripping my friend's head off. The other wasn't as muscled but still well-built and very tall. Then... my friend.... says the words. Everyone at the table kinda freezes and goes quiet. The very tall guy goes "What did he say?!" and the Hulk just shakes his head sadly and says "something stupid". Thank you Hulk for not ripping my friend's head off.

And that, boys and girls, is why you don't get comfortable saying words that aren't for you.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait, so are you telling me "Elmo's Song" was originally ******'s song?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yup. All those "la la las" you hear now? Originally something else

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would his favorite song be "Elmo in Paris" ?

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Okay but if I'm doing karaoke I'm gonna sing the song like it is. I'm not the guy who's just gonna skip the word or say "neighbor" or something, sorry.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (3 children)

you know karaoke is optional, right?

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (10 children)

So is putting the word in the song. I'm not ruining my vibe over dumb shit. Don't put it there and I won't say it

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Having a stick up your ass about the singer's skin color is also optional

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

*picks the song "my nigga" by YG for karaoke

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago
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