I’m not sure if this a issue specific to my instance or it’s a Lemmy problem but is anyone else having problems posting or commenting cause it get stuck trying to post it and it feels like it happens half the time.

Edit i forgot to add that it seems to happen to specific comments or post where no matter what i can't post anything to this specific person or post cause i would try a day later and the same comment or post still won't work but others in the same post will work normally, so could that be me or my instance being blocked or is it a bug?

edit2 for this case it seems I had to select language for some post or they just don't work so what would cause that to happen?

I'm not sure if this is ok to post he but.

I'm not sure if this a issue specific to my instance or it's a Lemmy problem but is anyone else having problems posting or commenting cause it get stuck trying to post it.

So I'm reposting this here to see how very specific game topic do here and cause the Mario Kart community is basically dead and I'm interested in seeing posts about very specific stuff in other game like Mario 64 parallel universes as a example so sorry if this isn't what the community want's to see.

Which buff do you think had the most impact in wave 4 the Character Buffs, the Kart/Bike/ATV buffs or the Tires buff.

For competitive I think the Character buff had the most impact cause if the parts didn’t get buffed i still think the meta would still be Yoshi but would be a more balanced mix of Inkstriker, Wiggler, Biddy Buggy cause i think the Inkstriker was always good and just doesn't have good synergy with the heavies.

I think a medium weight character being the best is better then a heavy or light character being the best cause if balanced right it’s cause they’re all around good to use (which i don’t think is the case here with the light characters being worse then the dino princess group (Peach, Daisy (HI), Yoshi and Birdo but at least characters lighter than Waluigi are viable now)

While I don’t think the tires buff had any impact on the meta it did stop me from only using rollers as I’ve been using the Standard and GLA tires a lot more then the rollers now.

I honestly feel like some of the parts didn’t need a buff like the Teddy Buggy, Inkstriker or Standard Kart which happen to be some of the new meta and close to them cause they were already good and if characters were balanced properly they would of been seen more often well the Inkstriker at least.

which buff do you think had the most impact the Character Buffs, the Kart/Bike/ATV buffs or the Tires buff.

For competitive i think the Character buff had the most impact cause if the parts didn't get buffed i still think the meta would still be Yoshi but would be a more balanced mix of Inkstriker, Wiggler, Biddy Buggy with the o cause i think the Inkstriker was always good.

I think a medium weight character being the best is better then a heavy or light character being the best cause if balanced right it's cause they're all around good to use (which i don't think is the case here with the light characters being worse then the Yoshi group but at least characters lighter than Waluigi are viable)

While I don't think the tires buff had any impact on the meta it did stop me from only using rollers as I've been using the Standard and GLA tires a lot more then the rollers now.

I honestly feel like some of the parts didn't need a buff like the Teddy Buggy, Inkstriker or Standard Kart which happen to be some of the new meta and close to them cause they were already good and if characters were balanced properly they would of been seen more often well the Inkstriker at least

I stopped going to any supports i had for 4 years at the moment cause i felt like i couldn't communicate what I want because if i say i don't know how to do some basic life skills they put me in a group with non functional people who basically have to be babied 24/7 which makes me feel too stupid for help.

Or that I sit down twiddling my thumbs the whole day cause I'm too afraid to ask if I should be doing anything at all cause I assume everything I do is wrong even if I know that's bull.

I have severe trust issues (especially with myself) so I always expect the worse in everyone which is also fuelled by a lot of "normal" or "happy" thing bringing back traumatic memories so it feels like I can't live in the happy society they have.

That I can disappear easily without a care from anybody makes me feel like there's no hope for me to improve and have a basic and normal life, that all I can be is a hollow husk who is technically alive cause I sleep, consume and poop but that all I do until nobody provides me the bare minimum.

Edit I wanted to also add I've been misdiagnosed as autistic but I did the test when I was suicidal (tell me if i should edit that out cause of rule 4) at the time so I half assed it but nobody listens or cares.

Also elight comment reminded me of being medically abused by HeadSpace where they were giving me a different antidepressant every week so I'm sure they weren't working as intended and i don't think that works for trauma but i was forced to take them cause they threaten me with ECT Electro shock therapy which terrified me and made me afraid of meds unless I'm in extreme pain and that more me running from the pain overpowering my fear of med and psychiatrist

I ask cause I don't really want to make multiple accounts yet and I'm not sure if I'm just missing the option in the settings or am I just blind.

Edit: i found out that the Lemmy i'm using doesn't have the option to toggle NSFW in the settings so either the option get added or i create another account for NSFW stuff