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So is this normal after any sexual encounter? (Please mature replies only and content warning mild sexual content) (hexbear.net)

submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I have a long distance friend and I'll admit we get super super flirty sometimes because of how lonely we both are.

So both of us haven't been laid in months. 8+ for both of us.

Both of us started getting turned on the phone the other day, one thing led to another and she and I had some consexual "mutual masturbation" over the phone. Phone sex simply (cringe I know, but that itch was there)

After we had both finished I just felt sort of ashamed and gross for about an hour.

Is this normal? I'm still very inexperienced with sexuality in general because in such a shy shy guy.

Is this this what they mean when they say post nut clarity or whatever?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

It'd be post nut clarity if ya friend was trynna convince you to come out and fuck them in person and you realized that a bang session isn't worth cross country air fare.

What you're experience is "my god what have I done...", usually experienced the first time you go any deeper in the hedonism hole than you have previously, first time you jack off with a partner, first time you get pegged, first time you get pegged with the biggest dildo you can find on Bad Dragon.

Could be a sign of a healthy new boundary, or it could be a sign you have a Dr. Jeckle-esque kink for catharsis via self shame, either way, nothing to worry about as long as you don't feel compelled to actually seek confession at the nearest cathedral.