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Start telling people now, over on reddit. BEFORE they start cracking down. That way, everyone will know, and the growth will happen even more rapidly.

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[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

First of all, I'm not campaigning for anything. I'm using the "winter is coming" meme pretty accurately. Reddit IS almost certainly about to finally ban (or highly restrict) NSFW content, after it's done with its IPO.

We don't have control over that. And that WILL cause an influx of people, flocking to the NSFW part of this community. This will result in both good and bad things. Again: I'm not asking for this to happen. I can't make it happen, nor can I keep it from happening. It's simply GOING to happen, some time this year. Mark my words.

I will admit that I assumed you meant "Lemmy/Fediverse doesn't need to grow at all," but you also did kind of assume that I meant "grow forever or die."

I meant what I said. The Fediverse/Lemmy needs to grow or die, and I stand by that. It needs to grow bigger than the current size. I did NOT say it should grow forever. And I absolutely did not MEAN that it should grow forever.

You asked how else that statement could be taken. Well, couldn't you have tried to take it AS I LITERALLY SAID IT? What would have been so hard about that?

But, again, I made the same mistake with your assertion. So we can let that go, if you're fine with that.

All I'm really saying is that the platform IS too tiny to be considered safe, at the moment. And, in all honesty, most people who frequent the communities on this platform would like to see more content per hour than we currently have. Maybe you're getting exactly what you want. But the thing is, you're not everyone. You don't run this shit.

Maybe you don't care about the gonewild communities, at all. Lots of people do. Right now, there are about a dozen frequent posters, on the lemmynsfw Gonewild community. There are many thousands of regular posters, on the equivalent community, back on Reddit. The people who made the Gonewild community on Lemmy absolutely have hopes that it will grow larger than it is, right now.

Yes, that comes with dangers. Yes, that comes with challenges. But just saying "I like my little club EXACTLY the size it is now" is shortsighted and rude, to put it mildly.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

So fyi, "Grow or Die" does mean "grow forever or die". That's what's the phrase was coined to mean and what it implies in every other context but yours. Worth keeping in mind.

Regarding everything else, you are very possessive about a platform that's not your's either, aren't you? I talk about how better participation from everyone would improve and grow the platform (quite the opposite of the "I like my little club EXACTLY the size it is now" you're trying to frame it as) and your response is "you don't run this shit"? It's surprising you want more people here when you can't seem to stand just one person disagreeing with you.

And comparing this all to Reddit, a site that's been around over 4x longer than Lemmy has existed, is just asinine. No, Lemmy isn't going to be at the same level as that. It probably won't be next year either. That doesn't mean it's dying.

I recommend patience and, again, focusing on bettering what we have now rather than obsessing over increase for the sake of increase, though considering your responses so far, it seems unlikely you'll take to that suggestion much. Good luck with that I guess.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

comparing this all to Reddit

Are you somehow unaware that this platform is SPECIFICALLY A REPLACEMENT FOR REDDIT?

You're acting as if the comparison is somehow unwarranted. The Fediverse/Lemmy is an alternative to and/or a direct replacement for Reddit. Nothing more, nothing less. It has the same feature set, the same basic format, the same intended use cases. It's an open/free/non-corporate version of Reddit, to belabor the point. Comparing it to Reddit is only sensible.

Or are you like one of those GIMP users who really bristles at the notion that the GIMP is intended to replace Photoshop?

Also, please address my point that we don't have any control over what Reddit does. This isn't about my patience. Reddit IS about to make a lot of corporate-ass decisions that will cause them to shed users BY THE TENS OF MILLIONS, and a whole shitload of them will land here.

Again: neither of us can control that. Neither our patience nor our eagerness will have any effect on it. It's just going to happen. And I made a meme about how perverts can and/or should be harnessed to grow the community.