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Those of you who are not okay: What's going on in your life right now and how could we help you make it better? (lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Getting divorced at 57. Only married 8 years, but separated for almost 3 now. I hate online dating. I worry about being creepy when I see someone I'm attracted to. I can't bring myself to hit on anyone I work with, especially since I'm only attracted to women far younger than me (30s and early 40s). I guess I'm alone from here out, with my only physical contact coming from the occasional massage parlor.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You planning on having kids? If not, maybe deprioritize attraction and focus on someone with a personality.

Bonus: you won't feel nervous or creepy talking to them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

This is the way 🎯

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