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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Sounds like your girlfriend might be studying here with a student visa or born here. Typically those girls come from very rich families and their concern is not "How do I use my daughter to make some money" instead, they are more focused on the child's needs.

When I say DEEP China. I'm talking about girls that is middle class and below in China.

I have friends that had to give a million rmb to her family to marry a girl. And do some fucked up shit during the ceremony, like drink foot water.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah she's a PhD student and her parents both had (what I assume would be) good paying careers. That being said, Chinese people are still humans and can have an entire range of experiences and outlooks, regardless of class. But you're right that certain ideas are more culturally ingrained.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Ya, for sure they are elite. Plenty of doctors want to come to America and have zero change. You're basically dating a 1%er of China. Don't fuck it up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Tbf the amount of 1%ers in China is like a third of my whole country's population.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

And do some fucked up shit during the ceremony, like drink foot water.

Go on...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There are these "games" that they make the groom play. Most of which involves giving money to the family.

Like, doing 100 pushups and if you can't you pay. Or drinking water that was used to wash your brides' feet or give money. Most of the other ones are mild like do a sexy dance on a guy friend.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Watch me suck his dick too, Daddy