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submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So is it a high probability that if a chick used to be super into me and has cooled considerably and on the site we were talking on it looks like she's up talking to somebody else.

I'm assuming she's found another dude she likes talking to more than me..

I'm not positive though

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The best thing you can do is be chill and stay friends. You never know what could happen in the future, but you can't be possessive or prideful. Not easy if you got confidence or anger issues, but it's the best thing if you want to be a really cool dude

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The best thing you can do is be chill and stay friends.

only do this if it's genuine and not waiting around for another shot, and it doesn't hurt too much. Don't friendzone yourself.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Friendzones are a proto-Tate concept. Guess im built different shrug-outta-hecks

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

people complained about it 20+ years ago, but it was always something they did to themselves by not being honest or self-aware.