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    I'm too afraid to ask (lemmy.ml)
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    [โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

    I think my initial read of your comment was wrong (I thought you were saying that the term was fine, which didn't hold up on my second read where I was paying attention), so I want to clarify by saying what I think you mean. You're making the point that I should be saying that the statement is racist and that they should consider whether or not they want to use it, not that they are being racist by using it in ignorance.

    Is that right? Because if so, that's a fair point. More flies with honey than vinegar and all that. I'm normally better about giving people a chance to consider rather than just dictate my beliefs, but I'm sleep deprived and cranky and I think it's making me act in ways that aren't aligned with my usual values.

    Edit: and it's a sign that I need to get off of the Internet for now, since I'm being waaaay more negative than I want to be.

    [โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    Basically yes. Or: the term is fine; in the eyes of people who never heard or thought about its racist origin.

    And your were entirely on the right track when your first comment started with explaining the origin first. When that's your starting point and you then get the response "But I've been saying it for years", it's probably far more successful to go with "Yes, but it can be offensive for people knowing its origin, so why not use available alternative terms?" than with "bro it's been fucking racist for years". In one case people have a high chance on thinking about it, in the other they will instictively feel attacked and get defensive about it.