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[โ€“] [email protected] 33 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Videos of my now deceased sister playing violin.

The Tragically Hip - Ahead By a Century

I will cross a room to turn the radio off when it is playing.

Both died from the same brain cancer and I can't handle listening or watching either of them yet.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Specifically just that song or any Hip?

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Specifically that song, it was my favourite song of theirs. I tuned in late to their last concert when it aired on CBC, I thought I must have missed them singing it because I was so late but it came on next. I was happy I didn't miss it but I cried as they sang it.

I have heard parts of it in the years since then, I have probably heard the whole song a few times but it hurts to hear it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Iโ€™m sorry for both of your losses

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

That sounds really rough. :(

I find stuff like this doesn't ever change for me, even though it may hurt less over time. I like knowing I have it, but ... I don't need to watch it.