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[serious] What are your most important boundaries you've learned to enforce? (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Nobody tells me what I'm going to do or where I will be going and when that happens

I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Nobody tells me how to format my comments.

if someone tries to make me format my comments in a specific way, I'll refuse to comply and sometimes go against that format

just to spite them.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I enjoyed the humor, but the OP did set a boundary of [serious].

So I guess what we are learning here is that setting boundaries is always going to provoke some people to break those boundaries out of spite.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Your boundaries end where my right to shitpost begins

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I appreciate your point, but you should really consider emphasizing the point of your comment using bold text. It would make it easier to read.