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Except if he finds out later that she was hiding this from him deliberately that could be excruciatingly hurtful. Whereas telling him now, I think, is more likely to play out as a "I just found out but you're still my dad regardless of genetics" thing.
Idk I feel like most dads would accept "I didn't tell you because I was afraid it would change our relationship, when I really love what we have now and don't want to lose it, and when no matter what the genes say, I'll always think of you and love you as my dad" as a valid excuse.
The upvotes to this are short-sighted and, as a step-dad myself, I can only wish the opposite we're true. I cannot imagine having the rare chance at rebuilding a fractured relationship with my flesh & blood decades later and then hearing from them that it wasn't technically accurate? 💀 No, the simple act of telling him would imply importance, and that is not the intent. Don't. Please, don't.
It's reasonable to suspect that something like this might be important and denying him the truth is denying him agency to choose.
It may be the case that you would rather not know. How can you guarantee the same about another man you've never met?
You missed my point entirely. Please, reread.