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Epilator recommendations? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I've tried shaving my leg hair a few times now, but it takes an hour or two just to get back with stubble within roughly two to three days at most. Also for some reason my skin just can't help get irritated, no matter how much I exfoliate, apply lotion afterwards, all that stuff. Because of this, I've been looking into other options

wax seems fine, but having to buy new stuff each time sounds like a pain
shaving cream sounds too good to be true, but from what I've read it also really messes up your pores, so I'd rather not

And so I landed on epilators. Since masc hair is a bit tougher though, I'm wondering if any of you have recommendations of epilators that actually do the trick? I've read a few reviews of some and every now and then you see a review along the lines of "I'm a man and it didn't work properly for me since the battery ran out before I was done" and since I'm not on hormones or anything, I assume my hair growth is similar-ish, meaning it wouldn't be much of an option for me either.

So again, do any of you recommendations for good epilators? And if not, do you have any shaving tricks or generally other ideas for how to get rid of leg, or even better, all kinds of body hair? I loved the feeling I had after shaving my legs, it just sucked that it lasted for two days and then I had about a week's worth of leg itching, despite trying my best to do avoid that.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I'd suggest trying waxing - as it's legs I think you would be able to learn how to do that yourself eventually. It's the one thing that has worked for me somewhat reliably for my arm pits (long story), though I haven't tried legs as I don't need to.

My wife has the Braun silk epil and we have the Braun IPL. Tried both for arm pits and lower back (...I'm a hairy man, not even gonna bother with other parts, just those that I need/wanted to try), and whilst the combination of the two lasted a bit longer than shaving, the results were still not as good as waxing. Also I find wax a bit more bearable to endure than epilators, but that would probably change with time.

Another upside is that not all the hair grow back, it's gradual, and they are softer.

Downside is that you'll have to figure out what works for you if you go down that road. We ordered a little heater of Amazon and found some wax pellets there too after the batch that came with heater ran out. None of the wax strips (wax on backing paper) worked for me though and they would end up being a bit pricey in comparison, but they may be ok for legs? And for me the major downside was that I can't really do my arm pits on my own with the hot wax, so wife does it for me.