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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

There was a video about this posted a bit ago. The speaker said basicly this same thing. After the age of 7, the environment that your kid is placed into, and the other people they are around, has for more influence on them that the parents have.

You do your best for the first 7 years, and then you do your best to find the right environment for them for the rest of their lives.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was it this?

https://youtu.be/TknWODlAzvo

Dr Russell Barkley on “nature vs nurture”

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Ha yes.

I may or may not have kids, but this video will stick in my mind forever. If I do, my focus will be on creating that community to surround my kids with people that they can look up to for good role models and hope for the best :D