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I'm a fan of "Southern Rock," but sometimes the lyrics make me wonder if i should drop it. Generally I listen more for music than message, but I don't want my kids hearing "be proud you're a rebel..." (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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"...cuz the South's gonna to do it again."

But man, that song rocks, especially the end. In a, you know, country way.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 11 months ago (1 children)

But. At the same time, if you need to pull up a Wikipedia article for people to not think you are a piece of shit, does it matter?

It is the Pepe the frog situation (that actually was a lot more complicated but). Some people used it because they wanted to take the meme back. Most used it to represent hate and bigotry. I know what I assumed when I saw it posted

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Speaking only for myself, I generally try to contextualize before I write someone off as a "piece of shit"

I imagine you could take any popular song from today and find fault in 50 years as cultural norms change.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

And if someone is listening to an anti robot anthem on the hover train, people will assume they are an asshole.

This is no different than any other media. Multiple shows have made the joke that 80s comedy films were basically nothing but rape. And that is why you have the really awkward conversations when you recommend one.