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How much contact is too much contact? (monyet.cc)

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I've actually been wondering about this for a while. Realised this is a really good place to ask!

So when you're dating someone in Malaysia. How often do you like to check in with your partner? How much is too much or too little?

I'm a pretty independent nyet so once every couple days feels about right for me. And maybe share some funny link if it pops up. Any more and I start feeling this slightly smothering obligation hanging in the air. But I've heard a pretty wide range on what people think is normal / makes them insecure. Like some couples wish each other good morning and good night every single day kinda thing. (But also some couples wear 100% matching outfits when they go out. Pls just let me die instead)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hmmm. After bouncing this around in this post, I've concluded that I don't mind pings throughout the day actually. It's more about the expectation of being responsive at specific times every day, and always having to check my phone. I'd be totes okay with messaging if they were okay with me going dead for blocks of hours or a day or two here and there.