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[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I think what's important here is discussing it with your partner because it is a form of sex work.

That's absolutely your decision and your right, it's your body - but your partner should get to choose whether they want to date someone who is doing that.

Having removed metadata and with nothing recognizable in the pic.

Not really relevant, that's like saying ordinary cheating isn't cheating if you wear a good disguise.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

that's like saying ordinary cheating isn't cheating if you wear a good disguise

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Let’s say you wear a teddy bear suit, would that be cheating…?

/s

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Or using a glory hole.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Oooo I think the analogy is a Little off. Just because of the way I interpreted why they said that in the first place.

I think it was said because they are expressing that the nudes are as impersonal as possible, not to say look I deidentified myself. In my case (if I'm right, maybe I'm not) it's a good faith argument to say see, I'm not trying to connect with someone I'm trying to have a business transaction, so comparing it to what wearing a disguise accomplishes in cheating isnt accurate.

Again, that's only based on my interpretation of why op added that bit